Your wedding is one of the most important events of your life—a day that will forever be remembered and replayed in your mind. When deciding what to wear, we all want to feel special. So when I married my husband, Gio Benitez, almost a year ago (April 16, 2016), we decided to wear different, but complimentary, tuxedos from J. Crew. We wanted to show our individual personalities in what we were wearing, but we also wanted to bring the looks together by wearing the same tie. The problem was that there were no ties on the market that matched the vision we had.

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Moments before I said, “I Do.” Putting the last finishing touches on my tie.

We turned to David Fin Ties, a New York-based luxury neckwear company. David Herzka, the company’s young and talented founder, sources all of his fabrics from Como, Italy but has the ties handmade in New York. He created a process unlike nothing else in the market: a completely customizable tie experience in which couples can build the tie of their dreams from scratch.

Our pocket squares in a complimentary blue complete the look!
Our pocket squares in a complimentary blue complete the look!

He helped us pick the fabric, matched it with a pattern, choose a color that complimented both of our tuxedos, choose the width of the ties, and monogram the backs with a special message that will live on forever: “Tommy <3 Gio” on one side and “4-16-16,” on the other.

Our monogrammed message on the back of our ties will forever be a memory of an unforgettable day.
Our monogrammed message on the back of our ties will forever be a memory of an unforgettable day.

We also gave my father a personalized tie with his initials and the date on the back – a special gift for anyone in your wedding party. Not only did these ties give another layer of meaning to what we were wearing, but David Fin is a company that donates a percentage of each tie sold to help the Folded Flag Foundation, an organization dedicated to providing funding for the education of children of fallen heroes. The camouflage tip lining of the ties pays homage to the company’s work with the organization. As a fashion-loving guy and a complete sucker for love, these ties were the perfect addition to an enchanting wedding.

You can find more information on how to custom create your own ties for your wedding here.

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Exchanging vows, a moment I will never forget. Notice how the tie catches the natural light – something I recommend considering when planning outdoor weddings!

Photos by: Studio Two Weddings


Tommy DiDario is a writer covering a range of topics including men’s fashion, grooming, travel, health and fitness and wellness and works with GQ as one of their exclusive GQ fashion Insiders, partnering with the biggest brands in the world. He is a digital influencer and host and runs the lifestyle website Talking with Tommy. DiDario is an advocate for acceptance and love, often working with organizations as a voice for equality for all. He currently reaches over 1 million people monthly across his social media platforms with a 106k following across social media. Tommy is also the CEO of a self-owned marketing branding and PR company, working with a range of clients in the fashion, wellness, beverage, restaurant and beauty industries.