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But with years of experience under her belt, she also knows how not to do it\u2014and she wants to save you from making some big no-nos. If you want a stylish, chic and low-stress affair here are five ways to do just that\u2014by not doing this\u2026 \u00a0Why I Love Fall WeddingsSummer may be known as the wedding season, but for Majcher, autumn takes the cake. \u201cThe weather is milder, there\u2019s a variety of really interesting fall leaves and branches to play with and incorporate in the d\u00e9cor,\u201d she says. \u201cPlus, you don’t have to worry about four people having their wedding on the same day!\u201dMistake #1: Not Working Within Your Budget. If you want a $100,000 wedding on a $10,000 budget, something\u2019s gotta give. Otherwise, you\u2019ll be serving caviar with Coors Light\u2014and that\u2019s not a good look for anyone. \u201cConcentrate your wad on the things that matter the most and forget the rest,\u201d says Majcher. \u201cIf you and your partner are total foodies, splurge on the gastronomic aspect and cut back on elaborate decor. If your crowd loves to booze it up, spend freely on the full bar but consider have the reception start later in the evening so that your food cost will be lower.\u201dMistake #2: Not Being Organized or Prepared Enough. A lot of brides delude themselves into thinking that they can be too prepared. You can’t. \u201cSuccessful productions\u2014and that’s what a wedding is no matter how small\u2014take lots of planning,\u201d she says. You can’t be too careful when it comes to insurance, vendors and reconfirming commitments in writing. If you can afford it, hire professionals to make sure all the i\u2019s are dotted and t\u2019s are crossed, or get a trusted friend to help out, so you don\u2019t have to worry about everything. \u201cStressed out faces don’t photograph well!\u201dMistake #3: Having Unrealistic Expectations. This is for the bride who is determined that she will have tulips at her wedding\u2014and then plans her wedding when tulips aren\u2019t in season, and cost three times what they normally would to get them flown in from across the world. The bottom line? Don\u2019t try to squeeze blood from an orange. \u201cWork with what you\u2019ve got!\u201d says Majcher. \u201cIf your venue is a gorgeous beach setting, don’t try to transform the space into a retro ’80s party.\u201d Your life (and your wallet) will be a lot happier.Mistake #4: Thinking You Can Please Everyone. You can\u2019t. \u201cEvery time I work with celebrity clients I’m reminded how many different agendas need to be satisfied\u2014managers, publicists and then, oh yes, the client,\u201d she says. \u201cYour wedding is no different. Just because your future mother-in-law is dying for you to invite her entire high school class that she hasn’t seen since 1964 doesn’t mean you need to cave. Figure out what you and your wife- or husband-to-be want and stick to your guns.\u201dMistake #5: Not Living in the Moment. When planning a wedding, it\u2019s easy to get caught up in all the details and the stress. Majcher\u2019s advice? Remember why you’re doing this in the first place. \u201cIt’s because you’re in love and desperate to spend the rest of your lives together, not because you’re trying to give a Broadway show a run for it’s money,\u201d she says. \u201cKeep your eye on the prize and keep reminding yourself what the point of all of this is anyway.\u201d "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Five Mistakes to Avoid When Planning Your Wedding","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/five-mistakes-to-avoid-when-planning-your-wedding\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]