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More than ever before, couples are turning to websites and apps to help organize their budget, find vendors and share with guests in an instant.But while using these tools is a great way to keep yourself on task and in touch with your loved ones, there are some things that you shouldn\u2019t use social media for. Here\u2019s a quick guide on how you can keep yourself, and your guests, in check.DO create a group on Facebook for your wedding party. This could be an easy place to exchange messages about appointments, show each other dresses or tuxes you like and plan events.DON\u2019T post news about your pending nuptials on Facebook, Twitter or other community site until you have informed those you are closest to via phone or face-to-face. Like it or not, some people will be insulted that you didn\u2019t think to call them before announcing it to all your so-called \u201cfriends\u201d or followers first.DO select an app that allows you to organize your budget, appointments,  playlists, likes and dislikes all in one place, at your fingertips, for  whenever you need to reference it.\u00bb\u00bb See 5 Must-Have Wedding Planning AppsDON\u2019T drive yourself crazy by checking and rechecking and triple-checking  every little detail. Just because it is at your fingertips doesn\u2019t mean  you have to drive yourself nuts! Give yourself a mandatory technology  break every now and then.DO find a site that allows you to instantly upload photos or video (such as Weddings Snap, YouTube or Vimeo) from your events so you and your guests can share them right away.DON\u2019T be afraid to ask guests to only post tasteful content\u2014it\u2019s your right to do so! You can add this caveat to the notice you display at the reception or the card you hand out indicating which site guests should use. And feel free to edit these photos and videos so that no one sees that awful picture of Aunt Mildred doing the booty dance with Uncle Herman.DO create Pinterest boards or Lover.ly bundles to plan  the look and feel of your ceremony and reception. You can use these pins  or boards to show vendors what you have in mind.DON\u2019T make  all of these boards public. You want the friends and family members who  follow you on these sites to be somewhat surprised by how you decide to  decorate, or the dress or tuxedo you choose to wear. Save some of the  reveals for the day itself.DO set up an informative and interactive website for your guests. There are many options, both paid and free (we love Appy Couple!), that can help you map out all the major details, such as directions, hotel information, registry lists and bios of the cast of characters. But add some personal touches\u2014such as a place for song requests or a video of the proposal. Guests will appreciate these sneak peeks, and look forward to your celebrating your wedding even more!\u00a0Photo: Real Wedding Jessica and Lacey, photography by Elizabeth Lloyd"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Get Social: Dos and Don\u2019ts of Using Social Media to Plan and Share Your Wedding","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/get-social-dos-and-donts-of-using-social-media-to-plan-and-share-your-wedding\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]