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Fresh coconuts chopped to order. A flower-in-hair station with a sign explaining Hawaiian relationship customs. These are the Hawaiian wedding ideas I took from Engage!26 Maui’s aloha welcome party. For the uninitiated, Engage! is a premier B2B luxury wedding and event business conference, and Equally Wed has been fortunate to be a media partner for more than a decade. My wife and cofounder, Maria “Mo” Palladino, and I have spoken at several of them, both on LGBTQ+ inclusive and affirming practices for the wedding industry and on how to work with editors and the media.Pa\u02bbina is the Hawaiian word for a gathering or feast. Engage!26 Maui used it to name the opening welcome party on the beach house lawn at the Ritz-Carlton Kapalua, and it fit. From the moment you arrived, someone pressed a plumeria stem into your hand and pointed you toward the lawn, where bamboo structures hung with tropical greenery, banana bunches and string lights stretched across the space with the Pacific sitting right there behind all of it.The bamboo arch entrance at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Eric KelleyThe LayoutThe party was set up across the full beach house lawn, with different seating areas creating natural places to land. Rattan cane lounge chairs and sofas with white cushions faced the water, tiki torches lit at the edge of the lawn. Each slatted wood cocktail table held a single bud vase of yellow dendrobium orchids and a succulent. Round dining tables were draped in a tropical palm leaf and hibiscus print linen with small floral centerpieces. Along the long tables, a teal checkered runner stretched the full length, with rattan woven votives, succulents and bamboo stalks tucked along it. Throughout the space, the florals used blue eryngium thistle, dendrobium orchids, heliconia, anthurium and tropical greenery, and looked like they came straight from the island.A ukulele wall stopped guests before they even made it to the food. Nearby, a multicolor ALOHA marquee sign glowed on the lawn facing the water. Both were photo moments that didn’t feel like photo moments, which is the harder thing to pull off.Kirsten Palladino and Shafonne Myers at the ukulele wall at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Paul MorseALOHA marquee sign. Photo: Paul MorseLounge seating at welcome party. Photo: Molly McCauleyTable linen details at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyTropical florals at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Molly McCauleyThe Food StationsSugar Beach Events of Hawaii produced the food stations, each run by a local chef. The standout was the Spin Art Ahi station: seared ahi tuna on a lavash “record” crisp with island-inspired sauces and garnishes, served directly off a pink Victrola turntable. The lavash was cut into rounds and placed on the spinning platter. It was the kind of thing that sounds impractical until you see it, and then you just want to know whose idea it was.More From the MenuIn addition to the Spin Art Ahi, the menu also featured a Japanese Okonomiyaki station: savory cabbage pancakes with pork belly, bonito flakes, furikake and sesame seeds. Merriman’s, the James Beard-nominated Maui restaurant, contributed a station with bruschetta loaded with local tomatoes and herbs on a live-edge wood board. Meanwhile, the Ritz-Carlton chefs ran their own station with Hapu\u02bbu Hawaiian sea bass in besan gravy with basmati rice and garlic naan, a seafood paella with Kauai shrimp and local octopus, and a vegan paella. For passed bites, servers circulated ahi tuna poke with avocado cream and sushi served in shot glasses on acrylic trays.The Spin Art Ahi Victrola display. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyFood station menu presented on a surf board. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographySpin Art Ahi from Sugar Beach Events of Hawaii. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyJapanese okonomiyaki at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyRitz-Carlton Maui food station menu board. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyMerriman’s station at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyIndividual bites of ahi tuna poke topped with avocado cream arranged on a white platter Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyPassed sushi appetizers. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyThe coconut bar at Engage!26 Maui Hawaiian welcome party. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyThe outdoor bar at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Molly McCauleyrFesh coconuts made to order at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Eric KelleySustainability signage. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyCocktail menu at Engage!26 Maui’s aloha welcome party. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyThe signature coconut cocktail at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Molly McCauleyPassed appetizers at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Tara Lee PhotographyThe Flower Hair StationNear the entrance, woven baskets overflowed with fresh plumeria and tropical blooms in yellow, pink and white. A wooden arch sign next to them explained a Hawaiian tradition: where you wear a single flower in your hair carries meaning. Right ear means single, left ear means in a relationship. Guests picked their flower and wore it accordingly. It was a small thing that got a lot of people talking.The flower hair station at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyHawaiian flower placement tradition sign. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyThe EntertainmentA live musician opened the evening on a bamboo-fronted stage with a lit “aloha” backdrop flanked by surfboards, playing guitar as the sun went down over the Pacific. From there, DJ Brian B took over and kept the dance floor going. On the lawn, a Banga photo booth featured actual swings \u2014 I played on them, and I regret nothing. Also parked on the lawn was a vintage blue photo bus from The Maui Photo Bus, offering a second photo booth option for guests.Live musician Ashley Toth playing guitar on aloha stage. Photo: Eric KelleyThe dance floor at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Paul MorseDJ Brian B on stage at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Paul MorseALOHA marquee sign. Photo: Paul MorseKirsten Palladino and Ndidi Ayoola on the beach house lawn at the Ritz-Carlton Kapalua. Photo: Megan NollKapalua Beach at sunset during Engage!26 Maui. Photo: Eric KelleyThe vintage VW bus photo booth at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyDetails Worth Stealing for Your Own Hawaiian WeddingWhen planning a Hawaiian wedding reception or destination wedding on Maui, the Pa\u02bbina and Provisions setup is worth studying. A few things that translated especially well:A fresh coconut station is an experience, not just a drink. Watching a chef chop a coconut to order is interactive and memorable, and it\u2019s rooted in the place you\u2019re getting married. Also, engraving the coconuts with your names? Adorable and unique personalization idea for your wedding.Put local chefs at your food stations. Ask them to talk about their food. The conversations guests had with the chefs at Pa\u02bbina and Provisions were the most talked-about part of the night.Use the Hawaiian flower hair tradition as a guest activity. A flower station with a sign explaining the right ear\/left ear custom is a cultural touch that doubles as a photo moment. Guests love learning something true about the place they\u2019re in, and shyer guests crave ways to open up conversations. Also, it could be a matchmaking opportunity for your single guests.Time your outdoor events for golden hour. On the water in Kapalua, the light does half the work for you. Schedule cocktail hour or your outdoor reception to catch it.Build in a sustainability moment. The compost sign was a small gesture that set a tone for the whole evening. LGBTQ+ couples planning destination weddings in Maui will find that the Ritz-Carlton Kapalua\u2019s beach house lawn offers one of the most photogenic outdoor event spaces on the island, with the Pacific as a built-in backdrop.Plumeria on the pool at Ritz-Carlton Kapalua. Photo: Tara Lee PhotographyFloral ground installation at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyFloral centerpiece at the Aloha welcome party. Photo: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyWhat I WoreThe DressLastly, we must discuss attire! I love a good attire theme. For the aloha welcome party, the attire suggestion was vintage Hawaiian. I wore a marigold yellow off-the-shoulder Farida dress by Banjanan, rented through Rent the Runway (I’m obsessed with RTR and use them for most of my speaking jobs \u2014 who wants to be photographed in the same dress twice?). It’s full length with a cactus bloom print and puff sleeves you can slide on or off. RTR lists it as a casual dress. Standing in it at golden hour on the beach lawn at the Ritz-Carlton Kapalua with the Pacific behind you, it was not casual.Renting meant I packed light and still had the right dress for every night of the week. Most hotels have a UPS drop-off station, which is how RTR users return their rentals, and it was so nice to drop that package off before packing to go home to make room for all the Hawaiian wares I bought on my trip! \u2764\ufe0fKirsten Palladino and Shafonne Myers in front of the ukulele wall. Photo: Paul MorseENGAGE!26 MAUI ALOHA WELCOME PARTY VENDORSEvent Host: Engage SummitsHost Property: The Ritz-Carlton Maui, KapaluaPlanning & Design: Island EventsPhotography: Dmitri and Sandra PhotographyPhotography: Jana Williams PhotographyPhotography: Eric Kelley PhotographyPhotography: Paul Morse StudiosPhotography: Megan Noll PhotographyPhotography: Molly McCauley PhotoPhoto Booth: The Maui Photo BusPhoto Booth: Banga StudiosCulinary Direction: Sugar Beach EventsCulinary: The Ritz-Carlton Maui, KapaluaCulinary: Cutting Edge CateringCulinary: Kiawe OutdoorCulinary: Andaz Maui at Wailea ResortCulinary: Merriman\u2019sCulinary: Nicole Scharer EventsCulinary: K\u016bpono CuisineSpecialty Coconuts: The Catered CoconutArt Direction, Branding, Menus & Design Support: TPD Design HouseLinens: Nuage DesignsLighting Design: Jacob Co CreativeSound & AV: Encore GlobalBackline Support: Event Horizon AudiovisualRentals: TKL EventsRentals: MC&A Event RentalsRentals: Let\u2019s Entertain MauiFlorist: Breach Co.Floral Farmers: Birds with Arms FarmsFloral Farmers: Yellow Seed FarmsFloral Wholesale Supplier: FMI FarmsDJ: DJ Brian BEntertainment: Ashley Toth MusicEntertainment: Envisions Entertainment & ProductionEntertainment: Sounds of SebastianAcrylic Sticks: XO Acrylics"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Hawaiian Wedding Ideas from the Engage!26 Maui Aloha Welcome Party at the Ritz-Carlton Kapalua","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/hawaiian-wedding-ideas-from-the-engage26-maui-aloha-welcome-party-at-the-ritz-carlton-kapalua\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]