[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BlogPosting","@id":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/mediterranean-and-jewish-wedding-in-wine-country\/#BlogPosting","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/mediterranean-and-jewish-wedding-in-wine-country\/","headline":"Mediterranean and Jewish wedding in wine country","name":"Mediterranean and Jewish wedding in wine country","description":"Sara and Stephanie honored both of their Mediterranean and Jewish cultures with an outdoor summer party in wine country in Sonoma, California.","datePublished":"2019-05-10","dateModified":"2019-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/author\/alainaleary\/#Person","name":"Fin Leary","url":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/author\/alainaleary\/","identifier":6376,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2d51014ed1230c3de5b543787b5bebf7ad45072e559a4cdb76347a56854d47a4?s=96&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2d51014ed1230c3de5b543787b5bebf7ad45072e559a4cdb76347a56854d47a4?s=96&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Equally Wed","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"http:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/equally-wed-lgbtq-weddings-logo.jpg","url":"http:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/equally-wed-lgbtq-weddings-logo.jpg","width":218,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Mediterranean-and-jewish-wedding-in-wine-country-stollen-still-equally-wed-18.jpg.jpg","url":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Mediterranean-and-jewish-wedding-in-wine-country-stollen-still-equally-wed-18.jpg.jpg","height":800,"width":1200},"url":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/mediterranean-and-jewish-wedding-in-wine-country\/","about":["Real LGBTQ+ Weddings"],"wordCount":511,"keywords":[" lesbian wedding"," two brides","gay wedding","genderfluid","Greek","Jewish","Jewish wedding","LGBT qedding","LGBTQ wedding","Mediterranean","queer","queer wedding","same-sex wedding","Sicillian"],"articleBody":"Sara and Stephanie honored both of their Mediterranean and Jewish cultures with an outdoor summer party in wine country in Sonoma, California.\u00a0Sara proposed first in Whistler, British Columbia, and then Stephanie did a week later on the roof of their apartment building in San Francisco.What advice would you give to engaged LGBTQ+ couples?We were not going to have a videographer and at the last minute, we decided to. It was hands down the best decision we made.Spend your money on what is most important to you\u2014for us, it was the food across three days\u2014so we had a friend do our flowers, bought a small two person cake and DIY’d most decorations.Advice for vendors and venues working with LGBTQ+ couples?Photographers, please ask for photo lists as the couple probably has an idea of photos they want to see from their wedding day. It’s important to get all the details, big and small, so we can remember everything, even if we didn’t get a chance to see it on the day.Who walked down the aisle and with whom? Or who (if anyone) waited at the front?Steph walked down the aisle first, with her mom and stepfather accompanying her. She stopped halfway down the aisle, her parents hugged her and took their seats and then Sara walked down the aisle with her parents to greet Steph. Once she reached the center, Sara’s parents took their seats and we walked the rest of the way to the chuppah together. Warren Haynes’ “I’ll Be the One” played the whole time.What challenges did you face as an LGBTQ+ couple planning your wedding?We were really lucky and had a great experience with all the vendors we worked with. It was a little challenging planning with family because we wanted to make our ceremony very unique to us and our parents had more traditional ideas about how it should be.In the end, they were very supportive and went with what we wanted, but there was a lot of opinion management along the way. We ended up writing our own vows, doing the Greek Stefana exchange (wreaths), signing our marriage certificate in front of everyone (that was really important to us to have everyone witness our marriage) and breaking the glass (a traditional Jewish tradition). It was a wonderfully blended Greek, Jewish and Sicilian ceremony.Did you encounter any pleasant surprises as an LGBTQ+ couple planning your wedding?Everyone was really happy for us, like really happy! It was refreshing to walk into vendor’s offices and have them glow as we told them our story.SEARCH FOR LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY WEDDING VENDORSVENDORSPhotographer:\u00a0Alanna Govenlock, Stollen StillVenue: Private residenceFlorist:\u00a0Rebekka Paynter HigginsPlanner:\u00a0Cuvee Wine Country EventsDJ:\u00a0Christina LadanyInvitations:Attire:\u00a0Olvi’s\u00a0& Klein, Epstein & ParkerJewelry:\u00a0Le VianVideographer: Andi Wardrop\/a>Catering:\u00a0Cuvee Wine Country EventsCake Designer:\u00a0Krumb’s CakesOfficiant: Hadi El HeneidiRentals: Encore EventsLiquor: William Grant & Sons"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mediterranean and Jewish wedding in wine country","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/mediterranean-and-jewish-wedding-in-wine-country\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]