[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BlogPosting","@id":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/nerdy-and-elegant-kingdom-hearts-inspired-wedding\/#BlogPosting","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/nerdy-and-elegant-kingdom-hearts-inspired-wedding\/","headline":"Nerdy and elegant Kingdom Hearts inspired wedding","name":"Nerdy and elegant Kingdom Hearts inspired wedding","description":"Katherine and Cassidy wanted their wedding to be geeky and reflect their love of Kingdom Hearts, while still providing an elegant experience for guests.","datePublished":"2020-03-02","dateModified":"2020-02-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/author\/alainaleary\/#Person","name":"Fin Leary","url":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/author\/alainaleary\/","identifier":6376,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2d51014ed1230c3de5b543787b5bebf7ad45072e559a4cdb76347a56854d47a4?s=96&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2d51014ed1230c3de5b543787b5bebf7ad45072e559a4cdb76347a56854d47a4?s=96&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Equally Wed","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"http:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/equally-wed-lgbtq-weddings-logo.jpg","url":"http:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/equally-wed-lgbtq-weddings-logo.jpg","width":218,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/IMG_5013.jpg","url":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/IMG_5013.jpg","height":800,"width":1200},"url":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/nerdy-and-elegant-kingdom-hearts-inspired-wedding\/","about":["Real LGBTQ+ Weddings from Equally Wed"],"wordCount":469,"keywords":[" lesbian wedding"," two brides","California","Nerdy and elegant Kingdom Hearts inspired wedding"],"articleBody":"Katherine and Cassidy wanted a chic geek wedding that encapsulated their love of Kingdom Hearts and our generally goofy selves, all while still giving everyone the feeling of attending an elegant party. They got married on September 28, 2019, after a two-year engagement (Katherine asked Cassidy to marry her).What advice would you give to engaged LGBTQ+ couples?Don’t stress over traditions and what other people think a wedding should be. Your wedding is a celebration of the next step in your journey, and at the end of the day, it should be something you and your partner look back on as not the happiest day of your life, but the beginning of the happiest days of your life. And don’t be afraid to be your quirky self!Advice for vendors and venues working with LGBTQ+ couples?Please have paperwork that does not define gender roles like bride and groom. We had a vendor who actually changed their form when we informed them of the frustration, and it meant the world to us and her! Choosing which bride was the “groom” on multiple forms was unnecessarily frustrating, and we were drawn towards vendors and creatives who did not only have a “token gay couple” on their website.Who walked down the aisle and with whom? Or who (if anyone) waited at the front?Katherine and Cassidy both appeared at the door together on their father’s arms. Joe, the officiant, then cut the musicians off and called, “Heads or tails?” down the aisle. Katherine and Cassidy staked their claim, and Cassidy won! She walked down the aisle with her father, and once she was at the front, Katherine and her father followed suit.What challenges did you face as an LGBTQ+ couple planning your wedding?We thankfully faced no challenges, in large part because of our very knowledgeable and amazing wedding planner Chanda. We are lucky enough to have completely supportive families and friends, and to live in the Bay Area where LGBTQ+ businesses and people are plentiful!Did you encounter any pleasant surprises as an LGBTQ+ couple planning your wedding?Finding Chanda, who has coordinated so many LGBTQ+ weddings before, was a wonderful surprise! In addition, our creative who changed her form so that it was more inclusive was a very touching moment for us.SEARCH FOR LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY WEDDING VENDORSVENDORSPhotographer: Nightingale PhotographyVenue: The Claremont Country ClubFlorist: Sweetness & Light FlowersPlanner: Chanda Daniels for A Monique Affair,\u00a0An Equally Wed Preferred VendorDJ: Verducci Event ProductionsInvitations: Bowerbird AtelierAttire: Essence of Australia and J’aime BridalJewelry: Gold & Gems Fine Jewelry\u00a0Attendant Attire: Azazie and Men’s Wearhouse\u00a0Catering: The Claremont Country ClubCake Designer: PietisserieRentals: Standard Party Rentals\u00a0and Glassybaby\u00a0Linens: Napa Valley LinensPhoto Booth: Archival Photo Booth"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nerdy and elegant Kingdom Hearts inspired wedding","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/nerdy-and-elegant-kingdom-hearts-inspired-wedding\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]