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Brittney, who was just 20 years old and a sophomore in college at the time, was out with her cousin Dionne when the two dropped by a Miami dance club called J\u2019s. \u201cIt was a bar in a strip mall,\u201d Brittney says. \u201cIf I\u2019d arrived there on my own, I would have turned the car around.\u201d But the cousins decided to stay and dance and that\u2019s when Brittney ended up meeting Kara. And, well, you know what they say. The rest is history. Well, not exactly. It was more than 10 years later before the women took the leap and tied the knot in an elegant and exciting party in Miami on Nov. 13, 2010.Vendors: Event Space: Miami Event Space Caterer: Eric Kern, Aaron\u2019s Catering Photo Booth: Capture POD Wedding Photographer: Haidy JensenWedding Planner: Melissa Barbier, Luxurious Event Engagement Photographer: Adrienne Langford Florist: Carlos Muina Hair and Makeup: Hillary Bell Videographer: Ram Hernandez, Fandango Wedding FilmsThey held the wedding at the Miami Event Space, because they wanted a nontraditional venue, and the Miami Event Space\u2014with its combination of industrial, urban elegance\u2014provided just what they were looking for. Plus, the space is predominantly white, which allowed them to use their sexy black-and-fuchsia color scheme to bring it to life. The ceremony itself was held outside just before sunset, and Kara\u2019s Aunt Earlene and Britney\u2019s grandmother Phyllis were co-officiants to symbolize the importance of family in their lives. Kara\u2019s 15-year-old niece sang during the ceremony, and her 10-year-old nephew was ring bearer. Brittney\u2019s parents walked her down the aisle in her strapless ivory Nicole Miller gown with fuchsia toile, to a waiting Kara, who wore a custom black suit by Jose\u2019s Custom Tailoring. Brittney decided to write the majority of the ceremony herself to make them as unique and authentic as possible. \u201cKara and I have worked really hard to make our relationship work, and this wedding was the culmination of so many years of love, hardship and devotion,\u201d she says. \u201cOur vows were secret until the moment we read them to each other, and were excruciatingly personal and raw. The ceremony will remain one of the most precious moments of my life.\u201d Of course, after the ceremony is when the real party started\u2014for all 160 guests. The two most important aspects of the reception for both women were the food and the music, and they spared no expense on either. Kara was in charge of making sure nobody would go away hungry, and they didn\u2019t. Aaron\u2019s Catering created a menu that reflected them as a couple: diverse, fun, unique and delicious. They didn\u2019t want a sit-down dinner, so instead opted for several different food stations, including everything from churrasco steak and grilled salmon, to cornflake-crusted chicken fingers and a complete pasta station with three different sauces and 10 different toppings. {loadposition easysspbritneyandkara}Photography by Haidy Jensen They also opted to serve their guests midnight snacks. \u201cWe knew our friends would need some grub for the ride home, so the catering staff served up Philly cheese steaks and waffles and syrup on a stick,\u201d Kara says. \u201cPersonally, I had three cheese steaks and I’m pretty sure they saved my life.\u201d And instead of going all out on a wedding cake, they decided on cheesecake and carrot cake bites served on spoons. \u201cThe food wasn’t just food, it was d\u00e9cor,\u201d Kara says. \u201cThe presentation was artistic, funky and totally beautiful.\u201d But the food wasn\u2019t the only thing funky at this wedding. The DJ rocked the house and had the dance floor packed as soon as he started, exactly how Brittney and Kara wanted it. \u201cWe\u2019re from Miami, so we had to represent with some booty music and old-school jams,\u201d Brittney says. \u201cBut we can’t lie. The Whitney Houston and Journey songs made the evening for everyone.\u201d The other hit of the reception was the Capture POD photo booth, which can fit up to eight people in the booth at one time. \u201cIt was a party in and of itself,\u201d Kara says. Now the wedding wouldn\u2019t have even happened if Kara hadn\u2019t proposed the year before. And she took Brittney totally by surprise at their favorite French restaurant to celebrate her 30th birthday with family and friends, and totally unbeknownst to her, to pop the question. Kara had everyone in on her plan, even the restaurant. When she got up from the table to \u201cuse the restroom,\u201d the couple\u2019s favorite song\u2014Bjork\u2019s \u201cUnison\u201d\u2014began playing over the restaurant\u2019s sound system, and then the lights went dim, all except a spotlight on Brittney. And out came Kara from the kitchen with a bouquet of white lilies and ring. They even got the proposal on video so they can watch it, now with the wedding. So with a perfect proposal and a successful wedding under their belts, what was the best part about their journey? \u201cIt\u2019s a toss up,\u201d Kara says. \u201cI can\u2019t decide between when I heard the first notes of Bjork\u2019s \u2018Unison\u2019 and seeing Brittney take her first steps down the aisle toward me. The other best part was listening to Brittney read me her vows. Whoa.\u201d \u201cI loved that this wedding was one big celebration,\u201d Kara says. \u201cA massive party. A festival. It was all about love, romance and family. Everyone was down to eat good food, drink excessively, make funny faces in the photo booth, hug a lot and, to quote my eloquent wife, \u2018get dirty.\u2019\u201dCheck out Brittney and Kara’s engagement story, also featured on Equally Wed, here."},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Real Weddings: Brittney and Kara","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/real-weddings-brittney-and-kara\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]