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Their first dance was to\u00a0\u201cSea of Love\u201d covered by Cat Power.Sara declared on their first date: \u201cI never want to get married.\u201d So Camille often joked that if we ever got engaged, Sara would have to propose to be sure she was not cornering Sara into an ultimatum. After three years together, Sara proposed on one knee at the Griffith Observatory in Los Angeles.What advice would you give to engaged LGBTQ+ couples?What we enjoyed about being a queer couple is that we felt that there were no rules. We chose to exclude gender-focused activities like tossing the bouquet or giving away the bride because we felt free to pick and choose different traditions. I hope that you all feel the same! Shake off those expectations and only do what feels right for you. Don\u2019t be afraid to check in with the people who agreed would help you. They love you; get the help they promised.Advice for vendors and venues working with LGBTQ+ couples?Adapt your forms to not say bride\/groom and replace with spouse or partner. Don\u2019t assume roles based on gender presentation. Ask the couple their pronouns.Did you have a bach (bachelor or bachelorette) party?Yes. It was a joint party with us and 11 of our close friends (queer, gay, straight) in Las Vegas and we called it a \u201cButchelorette.\u201d We got a hotel villa suite at the Marriott Grand Chateau. It was a blast!Who walked down the aisle and with whom? Or who (if anyone) waited at the front?Camille and Sara walked with each other down the aisle.What challenges did you face as an LGBTQ+ couple planning your wedding?Assumptions about our roles and what we want out of the wedding based on our gender presentation. People would assume that Camille was the \u201cman\u201d in the relationship and therefore took a hands-off approach to the ceremony. In our search for vendors, we tried to read reviews to see if the vendor would be a good fit for LGBTQ+ peeps. For instance, our DJ had a Tegan and Sara song in her promo video which is what drew us to her.SEARCH FOR LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY WEDDING VENDORS VENDORSPhotographer:\u00a0Diana Lake PhotographyCeremony & Reception Venue:\u00a0SmogShoppe\u00a0Florist:\u00a0Boulevard Florist Wholesale Market\u00a0Coordinator:\u00a0Flo MinisclouxDJ:\u00a0Vox DJsInvitations:\u00a03 Eggs DesignAttire:\u00a0Dress: David’s Bridal\u00a0& Sam Edelman\u00a0 & SharpeSuiting\u00a0& TomboyToes\u00a0Attendant Attire:\u00a0David’s Bridal & ReformationCatering:\u00a0A Classy Party to Remember CateringCake Designer:\u00a0Ellen LewisOfficiant:\u00a0Paul DeesBartender: Yasmina’s BartendingRentals: Signature Party Rentals\u00a0"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"This couple got married in a California garden with moody, dramatic photos","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/this-couple-got-married-in-a-california-garden-with-moody-dramatic-photos\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]