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In an attempt to avoid closed-minded relatives from attending the wedding, the two decided to invite everyone in their family so the thought was there, but assuming most people would not attend. 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When faced with navigating their religious beliefs, as well as the size of the family, I panicked. The Sea Ranch Wedding I had dreamed about suddenly became a mob scene numbering 300 people. There\u2019s no way I could justify the funds needed. As an alternative, we conceived of a very small, modest wedding near a group of close friends in England. Keeping in mind the cost of travel and time off needed, we\u2019d invite our whole family and many friends, assuming most would opt out. This also would avoid any awkward religious conversations with James\u2019 family.  Our plan worked, but not quite as well as we expected. What we thought to be 20 people, soon grew to 60 people, with RSVP cards with +6 having me breathing into a paper bag. Many people from James\u2019 family were eager to attend, and so many of our friends used it as an excuse to travel. Over 40 flights to England were purchased on behalf of our nuptials. We don\u2019t come from a particularly affluent bunch, but suddenly everyone was coming!  We fretted over the details for over a year, insisting the day be as simple, modest and unpretentious as we could possibly have. We said no to so many wedding conventions, down to opting for no flowers, only live plants. There were many twists and turns: we approached the vicar of the village, just to say a blessing at a meal, when he invited us to be married inside the church. The vicar and the village is very progressive, and it turns out he\u2019s a very famous TV presenter of religious-oriented shows on the BBC as well as an accomplished author and speaker.My spouse is a bit on the nerdy side, and he wanted to cut the cake with \u201c a sword older than our country.” We found a 300-year-old sword surprisingly easily. Being England, there’s stores for such things. To our surprise, the cake actually fought back from being stabbed, bending the sword! I\u2019m not sure if that\u2019s a good sign, but we\u2019ll go with it. Many of the women, especially from James’ side, really got into the idea of wearing hats to the ceremony. Some of them were even beautifully hand crafted.  Photographer: \u00a0Paul Rogers Photography Limited Bakery: Choccywockydoodah Tuxedo and Men’s Attire: Cole Haan Tuxedo and Men’s Attire: Moss Bros Restaurant: The Ram Inn Submitted via Two Bright Lights"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"English pub wedding reception in the UK","item":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/village-church-wedding-with-english-pub-reception\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]