{"id":78338,"date":"2022-12-01T16:47:14","date_gmt":"2022-12-01T21:47:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/?p=78338"},"modified":"2022-12-03T19:06:01","modified_gmt":"2022-12-04T00:06:01","slug":"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california\/","title":{"rendered":"Emily, Willie and Sarah&#8217;s DIY throuple wedding at the Inn on the Russian River in Monte Rio, California"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Emily (she\/her), Willie (he\/him) and Sarah (she\/her) enjoyed a low-key waterside throuple wedding at Inn on the Russian River in Monte Rio, California. The queer triad shared their love story with Equally Wed, as well as details about how they navigated planning a throuple wedding, something none of the marriers had ever attended.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-25.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"three white people in love standing in a field &#8212; a throuple or a triad\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"three white people in love standing in a field &#8212; a throuple or a triad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78363\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-25.jpg\" alt=\"three white people in love standing in a field -- a throuple or a triad\" width=\"875\" height=\"584\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-25.jpg 875w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-25-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-25-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-25-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 875px) 100vw, 875px\" \/><\/a><\/p><div class=\"adsanity-rotating-ads ad-aligncenter\" data-ids=\"81704,81705\" data-timer=\"10\" data-align=\"aligncenter\" data-max-width=\"0\">\n<div id=\"ad-81704\" class=\"ad-840x90 adsanity-840x90 aligncenter adsanity-aligncenter\"\n><div class=\"adsanity-inner\"><iframe scrolling=\"no\" style=\"border:none;\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/adsanity-ad\/81704\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<h2>HOW THEY MET<\/h2>\n<p>&#8220;Willie and I (Emily) met in high school! We dated for a bit and then went our separate ways in college. We reconnected back in Reno over a break and have been together ever since. We met Sarah at the San Rafael Farmers Market. She was working, selling produce, when she caught Emily\u2019s eye. With some big encouragement from Willie, I went back to her stand to buy some veggies. There was clearly an instant spark, we exchanged numbers and now we have a classically queer, Bay Area meet cute story.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78356\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1029\" height=\"686\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18.jpg 1029w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-18-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1029px) 100vw, 1029px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78359\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1270\" height=\"847\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21.jpg 1270w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-21-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1270px) 100vw, 1270px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-24.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"a white woman with a flower crown in a white dress nuzzling the face of a white man with a blonde french braid with babies breath tucked in. he is wearing a light gray blazer.\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"a white woman with a flower crown in a white dress nuzzling the face of a white man with a blonde french braid with babies breath tucked in. he is wearing a light gray blazer.\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78362\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-24.jpg\" alt=\"a white woman with a flower crown in a white dress nuzzling the face of a white man with a blonde french braid with babies breath tucked in. he is wearing a light gray blazer.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-24.jpg 656w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-24-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-24-585x878.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>THE PROPOSALS<\/h2>\n<p>We openly planned and talked about when we wanted to get married. We decided that we all wanted to ask each other, so there were SIX proposals and SIX rings!! It was a way to honor each relationship within our triad. I (Emily) proposed to Sarah first in Pt Reyes, on Sarah\u2019s birthday hike. I hid the ring in a vest pocket the night before and hid a bottle of champagne in her hiking pack. We popped the bottle overlooking the pacific ocean! Sarah took me (Emily) on a day trip to Pescadero where we picnicked on the beach and Sarah returned the proposal.<\/p>\n<p>Willie proposed to me (Emily) on a trip to San Luis Obispo. After mushroom foraging and hiking in the rain, Willie found a quiet spot on the beach to pop the question. Emily proposed to Willie that same weekend on a lazy, cozy morning.<\/p>\n<p>Sarah proposed to Willie on a trip back to her home on the East coast. They snuck away for a walk on Thanksgiving day and found the cove where Sarah grew up. They both had their rings ready to go and had a beautiful moment together on the dunes.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78340\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"837\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2.jpg 837w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-2-585x391.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 837px) 100vw, 837px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78341\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1393\" height=\"929\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3.jpg 1393w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-3-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1393px) 100vw, 1393px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>HOW THE VENUE WAS CHOSEN<\/h2>\n<p>Guerneville (the town next to Monte Rio) is a special place, it is a historically queer enclave and has a quirky-small town vibe in the middle of the redwoods. We loved going up there for river days during the summer and it always felt really special everytime we were there. We were looking for somewhere surrounded by incredible nature and that felt quintessentially California, and this area checked all our boxes.<\/p>\n<p>We were really drawn to the setting of the Inn and we wanted the celebration to feel longer than 1 night. It overlooked the Russian River and redwoods, and we could host our close friends and family onsite for the whole weekend. It was incredibly cozy, low key, and had everything we needed. We found it just through detailed and rigorous googling! It was the perfect setting for a relaxed, low stress wedding!<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78339\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"778\" height=\"519\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1.jpg 778w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-1-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 778px) 100vw, 778px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>WEDDING INSPIRATION AND THEME<\/h2>\n<p>Our theme was loosely \u2018In the Forest,&#8217; \u2018CA redwood,\u2019 with a splash of \u2018On the Shire.\u2019 We didn\u2019t want to overdo the decoration or accessories because the setting was pretty perfect as is and we were DIYing the whole event. The vibe was very much like a redwood forest backyard party. We wanted people to feel connected to the space and enjoy being under the trees. The ceremony, cocktail party, dinner, and dancing were all at the same location (The Inn) so everything felt well connected and had an easy flow. We even had an outdoor fireplace and got the fire going so it was really cozy!<\/p>\n<p>We are all very low key people so we didn\u2019t want anything over the top, or anything that didn\u2019t feel true to our relationship, and so that is how we planned everything. If it didn\u2019t fit us, we didn\u2019t do it, especially when it came to any of the standard wedding traditions. We wanted to keep things simple and easy so we could get the most out of the day. It was all straight forward but cute. All the decor and food was done by someone we know and love. Our flowers, desserts, table decor, all had a personal touch from a family or friend and that made every single detail that much more special.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78343\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5.jpg 960w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-5-585x391.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78342\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"879\" height=\"1318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4.jpg 879w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-4-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 879px) 100vw, 879px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78344\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6.jpg 605w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-6-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>THE WEDDING DAY DETAILS<\/h2>\n<p>Our wedding day felt incredibly relaxed. We had all our friends and family onsite to help and everyone was eager to help us set up. We also really focused on delegating tasks so once we gave people direction, we gave them creative freedom to do the jobs which made our lives so much easier! Our hair and makeup was all done by Willie\u2019s sisters, and we all got ready together, sitting outside. We didn\u2019t follow any of the usual traditions where we all hide until it is time for the ceremony, we wanted to greet our guests and have as much time as possible soaking it all up with them.<\/p>\n<p>We didn\u2019t want to spend a bunch of time taking photos so we worked with Alesha, Equally Wed preferred vendor Rove Coast Photography, to make our family photos as efficient as possible and they are perfect! She was so confident the whole day and made us feel really relaxed. We didn\u2019t want to feel rushed or like we had to keep moving locations to get the shots.<\/p>\n<p>The ceremony was officiated by Sarah\u2019s mom, who we let take creative liberty of the ceremony. She did an incredible job making it special and true to us. We walked down the aisle with our immediate families to \u2018Let go of your plans\u2019 by Lukas Nelson which I (Emily) thought was the perfect tone for an unconventional wedding. We didn\u2019t do wedding bands since we were already blinged out from engagement rings. But we all shared vows to each other\u2026so six vows total, Emily\u2019s dad read Wild Geese by Mary Oliver, and we took a step forward together entering the next chapter of our relationships. After the ceremony, we met our families on the patio and there was an incredible moment of a \u2018welcome to the family\u2019 hug train and celebration. Many happy tears were shed and everyone could feel the love in that moment.<\/p>\n<p>We had tacos for dinner from a vendor that we also met at the same farmers market where we met Sarah, the salad was made with greens from the farmer Sarah works for, and the desserts were made by another farmers market friend. The tacos were a big hit and maintained the low-key vibe!<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78366\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28.jpg\" alt=\"white woman with cropped gray hair walks up wedding aisle holding a small bouquet of wildflowers. She is wearing brown leather sandals and a red dress with white flowers on it.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28.jpg 615w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-28-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78367\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29.jpg\" alt=\"A white woman with cropped gray hair is bending over a wedding altar, where she is placing a small bouquet of wildflowers. She is wearing brown leather sandals and a red dress with white flowers on it.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29.jpg 835w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-29-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-30.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" 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\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78370\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1383\" height=\"922\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32.jpg 1383w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-32-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1383px) 100vw, 1383px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-33.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-33\" 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https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-33-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 910px) 100vw, 910px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78372\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1498\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34.jpg 664w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-34-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78373\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1178\" height=\"786\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35.jpg 1178w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-35-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1178px) 100vw, 1178px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78374\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"931\" height=\"666\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36.jpg 931w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36-300x215.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36-768x549.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-36-585x418.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 931px) 100vw, 931px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78375\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"986\" height=\"658\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37.jpg 986w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-37-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 986px) 100vw, 986px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78376\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38.jpg 731w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38-682x1024.jpg 682w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-38-585x878.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>WHAT THE THROUPLE LOVED MOST ABOUT THEIR WEDDING DAY<\/h2>\n<p>The rain!! Yes, it rained on our wedding day and the whole event was outside, no coverage in sight. It held off during the ceremony but really started to come down after dinner and during the dancing. Rain in Northern CA in June is kind of a miracle these days so we fully embraced it and it turned into an epic, soul medicine type dance party. Our last song was \u2018Dance with Somebody\u2019 by Whitney Houston and everyone was so present in that moment, dancing and singing and getting drenched all together. It was so magical and truly the most joy we\u2019ve ever felt!<\/p>\n<p>We also loved the moments before the wedding getting ready. At that point everyone was on it with the various jobs and we could just be together and look out at the whole thing coming together. Since we didn\u2019t really separate ourselves from most of the crowd, seeing everyone gather for us was very heartwarming.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78377\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"869\" height=\"580\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39.jpg 869w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-39-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 869px) 100vw, 869px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78378\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"864\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40.jpg 864w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-40-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 864px) 100vw, 864px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  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https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-41-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-41-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 832px) 100vw, 832px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-42.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-42\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-42\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78380\" 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1061px) 100vw, 1061px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78381\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1059\" height=\"707\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43.jpg 1059w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-43-585x391.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1059px) 100vw, 1059px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78382\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"998\" height=\"666\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44.jpg 998w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-44-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 998px) 100vw, 998px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78383\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45.jpg 604w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-45-585x878.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78384\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1146\" height=\"764\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46.jpg 1146w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-46-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1146px) 100vw, 1146px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78385\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1151\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47.jpg 1151w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-47-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1151px) 100vw, 1151px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>WHAT TRADITIONS THE THROUPLE INCORPORATED<\/h2>\n<p>Not a tradition but we wanted to create something that was communal and everyone had a hand in so we asked everyone to bring something to add to our altar. We set up small benches in front of the ceremony space and just let everyone build up the altar. We had photos of grandparents, shells from beaches that were special to us, photos of friends, plants, dried flowers, small trinkets from friends. It was a collection of all the moments in our lives that we shared with our guests.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-48.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-48\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-48\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78386\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-48.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1021\" height=\"681\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-48.jpg 1021w, 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size-full wp-image-78387\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-49.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1124\" height=\"803\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-49.jpg 1124w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-49-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-49-1024x732.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-49-768x549.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-49-585x418.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1124px) 100vw, 1124px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-50.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-50\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-50\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78388\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-50.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"983\" height=\"703\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-50.jpg 983w, 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src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-53.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1006\" height=\"671\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-53.jpg 1006w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-53-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-53-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-53-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1006px) 100vw, 1006px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  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https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-54-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78393\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55.jpg 619w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-55-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78394\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56.jpg 686w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-56-585x877.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>WEDDING WINS<\/h2>\n<p>We sent out a \u201cThrouple Wedding FAQ\u201d card with our save the dates which we and all our guests absolutely loved. We wanted it to be ok that people had questions about the wedding because it was a new thing to all of us! We shared up front that yeah, this is a little different but it is ours and we are excited to share it with you. Everyone loved them and I think it got people in an open mindset for the day!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Throuple Wedding FAQs<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Can three people get married?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Legally, no! We are following our hearts and making our own path through the world. Our ceremony will be for all three of us and truly one of a kind. Expect a river party with sweet moments and good food and drinks in a beautiful part of California.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Who are the McDeckmans?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Emily and Willie have been dating since high school. As we&#8217;ve made our way through the world, we met Sarah at the farmers market and we all fell in love. Each pair of of us have our own relationship, and all together, we are the start of a family. We aren&#8217;t following any rulebook. We are figuring it out, just like any other family.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>What can I do?<\/em><br \/>\n<em>We know this is not the typical adventure, but it&#8217;s ours and we are thrilled to share it with you. We are trying to cultivate a supportive and judgement-free environment where our families can get to know each other. We ask that you bring an open mind and share your excitement for our future. We can&#8217;t wait to celebrate with you!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Another favorite thing we did was hosting our closest friends and families onsite. The wedding is a hard time to actually catch up with people so having everyone around for a few days before and after made it so we could actually hang out all together, without the intenseness of the wedding day. It was so fun to wake up and all have breakfast together, go for walks, go out to dinner together, etc.<\/p>\n<p>We also loved having the wedding at a location that makes us feel relaxed. I (Emily) truly feel that the wedding felt so easy because our venue and location were both so peaceful, independent of the wedding. The day was already special before it even got going because of the location and I think it kept us and everyone relaxed the whole weekend.<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78396\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58.jpg 698w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58-682x1024.jpg 682w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-58-585x878.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78397 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59.jpg\" alt=\"throuple wedding\" width=\"916\" height=\"611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59.jpg 916w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-59-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 916px) 100vw, 916px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78398\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"855\" height=\"611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60.jpg 855w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60-768x549.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-60-585x418.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 855px) 100vw, 855px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78406 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68.jpg\" alt=\"a triad of white people (one man, two women) dances at their throuple wedding\" width=\"1266\" height=\"844\" srcset=\"https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68.jpg 1266w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/equallywed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/diy-throuple-wedding-inn-on-the-russian-river-monte-rio-california-equally-wed-68-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1266px) 100vw, 1266px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>WHAT WAS IT LIKE PLANNING A QUEER THROUPLE WEDDING?<\/h2>\n<p>When we started planning, we were on the fence for a while about what kind of wedding we wanted; we weren\u2019t sure what would \u2018fit\u2019 us but we are so glad we worked to find it. Throwing a queer, nontraditional wedding is really hard, and honestly I (Emily) was nervous to create a whole new type of wedding that no one, including us, has been to before. Not a lot of throuple wedding blogs to reference out there! Even for our wedding website, we had to find a workaround since all the templates only have spaces for two names. 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