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Equally Wed: What advice do you have for vendors and venues working with LGBTQ+ couples and marriers?<\/h3>\n
Robbie and Chris: Working with us is the same as working with any other couples, lol. Like some of the straight couples vendors have dealt with, some of us may have difficult personalities; some of us may have crazy demands, but we’re all just people. If we had to give any advice, we would say when meeting with LGBTQ+ couples, bear in mind that many of us are a little apprehensive entering into a business relationship where our sexual orientation is spotlighted, especially if we’ve been mostly private about it in the past. Make sure that the people you work with (LGBTQ+ or otherwise) always feel safe, respected and accepted. A great way to do this is for vendors to highlight some of the diverse couples they’ve worked with on their websites and social media profiles.<\/p>\n
What challenges did you face as an LGBTQ+ couple or LGBTQ+ marriers planning your wedding?<\/h3>\n
As far as outward challenges go, we can honestly say we were fortunate to have had very few. Our wedding planner, venue and vendors were all an absolute joy to work with. Never once were we made to feel like an “odd couple.” I’d say the only challenges were internal. We had some concerns about how our decision to go public with our union would be accepted by family and associates. For me, some of my more extended family didn’t know I was gay, but I knew they would be upset if I got married and didn’t invite them, so I just had to surprise them with the invitation.<\/p>\n
<\/a><\/p>\nDid you encounter any pleasant surprises as an LGBTQ+ couple or marriers planning your wedding?<\/h3>\n
With all the political news we’ve heard out of Florida recently regarding LGBTQ+ rights, we were surprised and delighted by how warm, welcoming and pleasant everyone was to work with. Everyone we worked with was genuinely happy for us and excited to be a part of our wedding story.<\/p>\n
What advice would you give to engaged LGBTQ+ couples or marriers?<\/h3>\n
This is YOUR love story, no one else’s. Make your engagement and wedding what you’ve always wanted them to be, not what you think the people in your life will be comfortable with. Be who you are, and don’t let the perceptions of others get in the way of your happiness and your love for each other. <\/a><\/p>\n