All in the Details
A guide to appreciating the little things
It’s the little things that will make the biggest impact, wow your guests and make your wedding yours on the big day, but incorporating bits of your personality into your wedding look, the most personal piece of all, can be harder than you think when you don’t know the difference between a pocket square and a kerchief. Follow our guide to take the guesswork out of your garment choices so you can love the way you look at your wedding, all the way down to the very last detail.
IT’S HIP TO BE SQUARE
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When to wear them
Pocket squares are an excellent way to express your commitment to style, add a unique texture or color to your look, and pull together your shirt and suit. Since a pocket square is stunning on both tuxes and suits, anyone should take a risk and include one in their wedding ensemble.
How to rock them
It’s all about the fold of the fabric. For textured suits, choose a linen square or handkerchief folded into fourths with one neatly pressed corner peeking out of your pocket—this is aptly named the “press fold.” For tuxes, opt for silk printed squares to complement your shirt or wedding colors, and try stuffing the square into your pocket loosely to create soft texture.
Where to get them
Paul Smith Silk Polka-Dot Pocket Square, $55.
Paul Stuart Linen Pocket Square, $59.50.
Ralph Lauren Ivy Row Paisley Pocket Square, $75.
SKINNY, WIDE OR BOW—HOW TO KNOW
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When to wear them
With so many styles to choose from, it’s easy to get all in a knot over your tie choice. Are you looking for a unique, but sophisticated look? The bow tie is your go-to. Skinny ties are best for those looking for a modern, but classic look. Pick a wide tie in a bright hue or pattern to complete your understated, elegant ensemble.
How to rock them
The first and most important rule if you choose a necktie instead of a bow is to make sure that it meets the waist of your pants in length. A short necktie is a no-go at your wedding, or on any day for that matter.
Where to get them
D&G Reversible Skinny Tie, $265.
Forage Bowties from Something’s Hiding in Here.
Ralph Lauren Faille Pre-Tied Bow Tie, $85.
Ben Sherman Rome Silk Classic Tie, $35.
OFF THE CUFF
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When to wear them
If you fell in love with a shirt with button-less sleeves for your wedding day, cufflinks are for you! There are hundreds of different varieties available to complement your desired aesthetic or if you want to include some embellishment in your formal look.
How to rock them
The great thing about cufflinks is that they really break the rules. You can get them inscribed with your wedding date, have a set fashioned out of old coins, and heck, you can even pick a pair that honors your favorite childhood toy. Have fun with your links, and they’re sure to be a hit. If you know you’re both wearing cufflinks on your wedding day, this can be a sentimental gift to give each other—and a treasure to pass down to your children.
Where to get them
