Cake toppers can be a surprisingly tricky thing to pick. You want something that represents you, yet you don’t want to be too kitschy (we’ve all seen the candy bride with the sourpuss look, dragging the groom with the ball and chain). For same-sex couples, it gets more complicated, as many manufacturers don’t make bride-bride or groom-groom toppers. There is the option of buying two toppers and discarding the figures you don’t want, but that is costly and wasteful. Here are some same-sex wedding cake toppers that won’t force you to buy two sets and provide some inspiration for your ceremony.

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Already Assembled: Just the right touch of flash for a not-so-quiet couple, this crystal lesbian cake topper is elegant rather than kitschy. Available at WeddingCollectibles.com for $72.95.

 

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Simply Beautiful: This topper is super simple, yet super elegant—just your names and your wedding date. Available at GayWeddings.com for $27.95.

 

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Cultural Cake Toppers: These fun, customizeable toppers perfectly represent both marriage and Dia de la Muerte without being tacky. Available on Etsy.com for $70.

 

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Mix-and-Match: The Shop at Gay Weddings offers mix-and-match toppers, perfect for interracial marriages or for brides who are both wearing dresses or both wearing suits, or one bride wearing a suit while the other rocks a dress. Available at GayWeddings.com for $86.50.

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Retro Classic: So ‘50s, yet fun for the 21st-century. Available at oneofakindcaketoppers.com for $89.99.