Cake toppers can be a surprisingly tricky thing to pick. You want something that represents you, yet you donโ€™t want to be too kitschy (weโ€™ve all seen the candy bride with the sourpuss look, dragging the groom with the ball and chain). For same-sex couples, it gets more complicated, as many manufacturers donโ€™t make bride-bride or groom-groom toppers. There is the option of buying two toppers and discarding the figures you donโ€™t want, but that is costly and wasteful. Here are some same-sex wedding cake toppers that wonโ€™t force you to buy two sets and provide some inspiration for your ceremony.

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Already Assembled: Just the right touch of flash for a not-so-quiet couple, this crystal lesbian cake topper is elegant rather than kitschy. Available at WeddingCollectibles.com for $72.95.

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Simply Beautiful: This topper is super simple, yet super elegantโ€”just your names and your wedding date. Available at GayWeddings.com for $27.95.

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Cultural Cake Toppers: These fun, customizeable toppers perfectly represent both marriage and Dia de la Muerte without being tacky. Available on Etsy.com for $70.

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Mix-and-Match: The Shop at Gay Weddings offers mix-and-match toppers, perfect for interracial marriages or for brides who are both wearing dresses or both wearing suits, or one bride wearing a suit while the other rocks a dress. Available at GayWeddings.com for $86.50.

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Retro Classic: So โ€˜50s, yet fun for the 21st-century. Available at oneofakindcaketoppers.com for $89.99.