Wedding days always come and go quickly. In that respect, they’re a little like holidays. One minute, you’re running downstairs, ready to open presents, the next it’s a cold January morning and you’re on your way to the office.
Even so, it is possible to make weddings live on. Even if you can’t relive the day, you can make the experience last.
But how?
That’s something that Special Events Photo Booths has made a business doing. The company wants the experience to last longer.
“Why is it that people love taking photos at weddings and it’s such a big deal?” the brand asks. “It’s all to do with making things last. People don’t want their wedding days to suddenly flutter and disappear forever. Instead, they want to take part in the experience with them. And that’s what photography does. You essentially have something that lasts forever.”
Of course, stunning photography isn’t the only option. There are plenty of others. But it should illustrate the point. Wedding magic can last a lifetime, providing you with an anchor from which to look back and review your life and experiences.
“We think that capturing wedding moments can make a tremendous difference in how people perceive their weddings,” Special Events Photo Booths say. “You can go into the day with the understanding that part of it is going to go with you. It’s a bit like when you get a goodie bag after a party. It’s not quite the real thing, but it is a good consolation.”
The purpose of this article is to look at how to make wedding magic last a lifetime. Thanks to modern methods, there are numerous ways you can now retain memories with them and look back at them whenever you want to reminisce. There are also ways you and your partner can keep the romance alive and cultivate connection, even years after tying the knot.
How To Relive Your Wedding Memories
So, what are the ways you can relive your wedding memories?
Create A Wedding Memory Box
A few years ago, time capsules were all the rage. People would put special objects inside an old shoe box and then bury it in the ground, only to dig it up years or decades later.
However, you don’t need to go to some field somewhere and unearth it. Instead, you can just keep a box somewhere out of the way and revisit it now and then for a hefty dose of nostalgia.
For example, you could put things like wedding photos, gifts, or mementos from the day in the box. Then, you can take the topsoil off, unearth it metaphorically, and dig back in on your anniversaries, say, every five to ten years. Then, every time you opened it, you’d be transported back in time to a different place. And with each opening, you’d have a new perspective. You’d be able to compare how you were back then to how you are today.
Turn Your Wedding Photos Into Art
Another trend is to turn your wedding photos into art. Transforming them into beautiful images that showcase the magic of the day can be an excellent way to celebrate the occasion and keep it fresh. For example, you could take a standard shot from your photographer and run it through editing software before putting it on your living room wall. It would stand as a testament to the event, reminding you of what happened for years to come.
“We like the idea of turning photos into art,” Special Events Photo Booths says. “It’s not just about getting a great shot. It’s also about editing those photos to give them additional character and make them even more your own.”
The ability of editing software and AI to make improvements in this direction is tremendous. You can now type prompts into a piece of AI editing software and it’ll oblige, adjusting or adapting your image however you want. If you’re not happy with the results, you simply refine the prompts.
Revisit Your Vows
You might also want to try revisiting your vows from time to time. Going back through what you said can be a great catalyst to remind you why you got into the relationship in the first place, reliving the emotion and sentiment you had before.
Some couples actually say their vows out loud to each other again every anniversary or relationship milestone. For instance, you might repeat the vows after being married every five or ten years as you get older.
You could also arrange a vow renewal ceremony to relive the important bits of your original wedding. Inviting guests and repeating vows in front of them can be an excellent way to recapture the magic of the moment and have a great day with your spouse at the same time.
Go Back And Recreate Special Moments
Another option is to go back and recreate the special moments you had with your spouse before you got married. Rewinding the clock can help you unearth old but powerful emotions that first created the bond between you.
For example, you might go back to the park where you first met. You could even visit the tree where you sat and talked to each other for the first time.
You could also go back to the places where you first went on dates. For instance, you could return to the beach where you had your third date, or go for a walk in the woods together where you shared your first kiss. You could even sing to any horses you see (if that’s what you did the first time around!)
How To Keep The Magic Alive
Even if you go back and relive your wedding or courtship occasionally, that isn’t always enough to keep the magic alive. Making the wedding buzz last a lifetime requires consistent effort.
But what does that look like? Here are some ideas.
Surprise Each Other
First, you’ll want to start off by surprising your spouse from time to time. Doing something interesting or unusual can help keep things going and ensure that you don’t drift apart.
One option is to book surprise outings. Here, you and your spouse go somewhere together and have a good time partying (or doing whatever you want to do).
Another option is something simple, like leaving little notes around the house for them to find. Small thoughts like these can have tremendous benefits when it comes to feeling closer day to day.
You could even do something thoughtful, such as preparing a meal just the way they like it. Little touches and elements like these can have a profound effect on the relationship and how happy you both feel about it.
Try New Things
Another way to keep the spark alive is to try new things together. Doing something different from time to time keeps you interested.
Naturally, there are all sorts of ways to keep things fresh. For instance, you could spice things up in the bedroom or explore a new hobby. You could also go traveling to a new destination and try different things to see how they sit with you. Exploring the world in this way can be an excellent option to dig your relationship out of a rut and try something different.
Think about all your best memories. Chances are that you had them abroad, not at home. That’s because the brain works differently when traveling. You take in more and everything seems so engaging and memorable.
Celebrate Your Milestones
You could also try celebrating your milestones to keep your wedding magic alive. Just reminding yourself how far you’ve come can be an excellent way to remember who you were when you got married.
Once you reach a milestone, make it a big event. If you want to celebrate regularly, do what they do in Southeast Asia and throw a party every month. There aren’t any rules here!
You can also personalize your celebrations to fit your personality and relationship. Everyone is different, so feel free to experiment.
Maintain Your Passions
At the same time, you also want to maintain your passions. You don’t want your marriage to take over your entire life so that you disappear.
Ensuring you and your spouse continue doing things that you love to do is essential. The more you can learn about each other’s interests and hobbies, the more you can respect each other’s time and live happily side by side.
Express Appreciation
Finally, it’s essential to tell your partner how much you value them occasionally. Reminding them that they are important to you is one of the most powerful things you can do to keep the relationship strong.
Words can be an excellent way to tell them how much you care, but actions are even better. Using small gestures or doing something for your spouse can change how the relationship operates, increasing reciprocity and reducing the risk of frustration. Simply being there for your partner can be an excellent way to make the marriage thrive.
Photo: Aj Stegall
