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On their trip to Europe,ย Gioย Benitez, an ABC News reporter for “Good Morning America,” “Nightline” and “20/20” surprised his boyfriend and actor, model, lifestyle bloggerย Tommyย DiDarioย with his proposal in Paris. It was captured live byย Paris photographer Pierre Torset.
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FROM GIO + TOMMY
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HOWย DID YOU MEET?
On Instagram! A truly modern love story, no? We met for a drink right after, and the connection was instant. We couldnโt be separated from that moment forward. Within months, marriage was already on our minds, but he had no idea I was already communicating with Paris photographer Pierre Torset for an epic surprise proposal.ย
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HOW LONG DID YOU DATE?
We had been dating for 8 months before the proposal, but we canโt think of a time when we didnโt have each other in our lives. Itโs as if weโve always known each other!ย
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WHY PARIS?
The Paris trip was us continuing our story of adventure. We love the idea of traveling and seeing new things, and I thought Paris was the perfect setting for the proposal.ย
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HOW DID YOU FEEL RIGHT AFTER THE PROPOSAL?
It was surreal. Here we were, in the most romantic city in the world, asking (and answering) the ultimate question of commitment: โWill you marry me?โ It took a few days to really let it all sink inโthat our two lives had become oneโexactly as we wanted.ย
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WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
We are getting married onย April 16ย in Miami, Florida. The location, which will be kept secret for now, is a magical and hidden oasis most people donโt even know about.
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FROM THE PHOTOGRAPHER
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The couple came to Paris just for a quick stopover before attending a friendโs wedding in Spain.ย Gioย got in touch with me to plan his surprise proposal in Paris. As his boyfriendย Tommyย is an actor (blogger, actor, model),ย Gioย liked the idea to include some acting in the surprise proposal.
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Eventually we stuck with this plan: I was hanging around at the meeting point in front of the Eiffel Tower pretending to be an amateur photographer taking pictures of the famous sight. Whenย Gioย arrived with his boyfriendย Tommyย he was asking me to take a picture with his iPhone of them in front of the Eiffel Tower.
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After doing that we started chatting a bit and I asked them whether they were a couple. Whenย Gioย andย Tommyย answered yes, I asked them if I could take a few more pictures of them with my own camera as I am an amateur photographer doing a project where their picture could fit in perfectly. They agreed and that was the sign forย Gio: He kneeled down on one knee and proposed toย Tommyย whereas I captured their moment on picture.ย
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Afterwardsย Tommyย told me that his first thought seeingย Gioย proposing was: “Thatโs a joke!ย Gioย is just fake proposing because he wants to make fun with the amateur photographer.” But as soon asย Gioย took out the ringย Tommyย realized the proposal was for real and he accepted happily.ย Gioย and I revealedย toย Tommyย that the shoot was set up and together we went on for a few more engagement pictures around Paris.
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VENDORS:
PHOTOGRAPHER:ย Paris Photographer Pierre Torset
VENUE: The Eiffel Tower
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Kirsten Palladino
Kirsten Ott Palladino (she/her) is an award-winning editor, writer, speaker and educator, as well as the author of the first gender-neutral wedding planning book for LGBTQ+ couples, EQUALLY WEDโ: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO PLANNING YOUR LGBTQ+ WEDDING โ(Seal Press). Sheโs the co-founder and editorial director of Equally Wed, the worldโs leading digital LGBTQ+ wedding magazine, as well as Equally Wed Pro, the LGBTQ+ inclusive certification course and educational platform. Palladino has been profiled on CNN, NPR and Forbes and in The New York Times. Her work has appeared in Washington Post, Entrepreneur magazine, ARTNews magazine, Art & Antiques magazine, The Knot, Executive Traveler magazine, the Huffington Post, and more. She was recognized as one of Glamour magazine's Hometown Heroes for 2015.
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