A brewery engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado

Emily (she/her) and Lyndsey (she/her) got engaged on the rooftop deck of Gravely Brewing Co, surrounded by purple morning glory vines climbing the wooden railings and the Denver skyline spread out behind them. The moment was photographed by MDVZ Photography and the ring, a distinctive wood-and-metal band from Staghead Designs, was on Lyndsey’s finger before she even understood what was happening. A wooden ring box engraved with “here to stay” sat on the deck between two Gravely pints. The whole thing was a setup, in the best possible way.

How They Found Each Other

“After establishing we had mutual friends in real life, Lyndsey slid into my DMs on IG,” Emily says. “She used the ‘have I seen you around?’ line, and the conversations just kept flowing from there.”

Their first date followed a few weeks later. “Our first official date was a couple weeks later at a pumpkin patch,” she says, “and after our first kiss later that night, I knew we had a love story to write.”

That was March 3, 2019. More than three years later, Emily would engineer a proposal just as deliberate as that first conversation.

The couple embraces and laughs together on a deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple embraces and laughs at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado, showcasing an intricate mountain-scene tattoo sleeve.
The couple embraces and shares a tender kiss during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
A couple shares an intimate almost-kiss on a rooftop deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
One of the partners kisses the other on the cheek as they smile during an engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver.
The couple leans foreheads together, nearly kissing, during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.

The Proposal

“Emily knew she wanted to propose and knew the photographer she wanted to capture it,” Lyndsey says. “She reached out to Madison several months before she proposed and they started game planning.”

“Eventually Emily settled on proposing at one of our favorite breweries in Louisville, Kentucky, where we were living at the time,” she continues. “Madison and Emily tricked me into thinking we were chosen for a styled shoot so I had no idea the proposal was happening within the photoshoot.”

The plan held. “Madison posed us and prompted us for a few minutes,” Lyndsey says, “and then during one pose where Emily was supposed to run up from behind and ‘bear hug’ me, she pulled the ring out and proposed instead.”

The photos show what happened next: Emily on one knee on that rooftop deck, sliding the ring onto Lyndsey’s finger while Lyndsey looked down, smiling and wiping away tears. Later, they clinked Gravely pints to celebrate, hands intertwined across the table. “It was intimate, relaxed and all around perfect,” Lyndsey says. They’ve since brought the session’s setting with them to Denver, choosing Gravely’s Colorado location for the formal engagement photos that documented the chapter the proposal began.

The couple shares a kiss during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
One of the partners kneels on a rooftop deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, placing a ring on the other partner's hand.
The couple embraces and laughs together during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
One of the partners kneels on a rooftop deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, placing a ring on the other partner's finger.
The couple shares a close embrace on a rooftop deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a warm embrace on the outdoor patio at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.

What They Love Most

“I love her kind heart and patience,” Emily says of Lyndsey. “She’s so gentle with the people in her life, and she has the gift of pointing out the beauty in everyone and everything, even when it seems impossible. Being around her feels like you’re always being kissed by sunshine.”

Lyndsey’s answer about Emily is just as precise. “I love how selfless and caring she is; she will always put others before herself,” she says. “She could be having the worst day, but if someone calls her needing support, she will simply put all circumstances aside and just listen.”

“Her smile is so comforting and warm,” Lyndsey continues. “Her hugs will instantly take my worries away. And the way she loves is so calm and pure.”

That ease shows in the photos from Gravely’s outdoor deck, where the two laugh into each other with the kind of looseness that doesn’t perform for a camera. In one frame, one of them covers her face while the other tips her head back laughing. In another, taken against the brewery’s indoor wall of colorfully decorated drum heads, one cups the other’s face while both hold pints. The whole session reads like a Saturday afternoon that happened to be documented.

The couple embraces and gazes at each other under a canvas canopy on the patio at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a kiss on the outdoor deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado, during their engagement session.
The couple embraces and shares a tender moment under a shade sail at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a close embrace during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a close moment on the deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado during their engagement session.
A couple laughs and embraces on the outdoor deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.

What Marriage Means to Them

“We’re looking forward to experiencing new milestones and exploring new places together,” Emily says. “Neither of us thought we’d find a lifetime love, so we want to appreciate it by choosing each other consistently and working toward growth both as individuals and a couple.”

The couple shares a kiss on the outdoor deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado during their engagement session.
The couple holds hands and laughs together on a wooden deck outside Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
One of the partners places a ring on the other's finger as they smile and wipe away tears at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver.
One of the partners slides a wedding band onto the other's finger during an engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver.
One of the partners kisses the other's hand while they laugh together during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver.
One of the partners slides a wood-and-metal band onto the other's ring finger during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver.
The couple holds hands and smiles at each other on the outdoor deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple embraces and smiles at each other on the outdoor patio at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple leans against the bar at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado, one partner resting an arm around the other.
A couple leans together at the bar at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado, one partner resting an arm around the other while they review the draft beer menu.
The couple walks up outdoor stairs at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado, surrounded by lush garden landscaping.
Two Gravely Brewing Co. pints and a wooden ring box engraved with 'here to stay' on a deck in Denver.
The couple clinks pint glasses of beer at Gravely Brewing Co in Louisville, Kentucky, their hands intertwined.
The couple sips craft beer pints while sitting on a wooden deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
A couple sips drinks together on a deck at Gravely Brewing Co. in Denver, Colorado, during their engagement session.
The couple sips craft beer and holds hands during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co. in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a kiss while holding craft beers on the wooden deck at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a kiss and clinks beer glasses during their engagement session at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.
The couple shares a kiss over beers at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado, surrounded by a wall of decorated drum heads.
The couple shares a tender moment over craft beers at Gravely Brewing Co in Denver, Colorado.

“Being able to say ‘wife’ will also be pretty awesome,” she adds. โค๏ธ

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Photographer: MDVZ Photography
Location/Venue: Gravely Brewing Co
Jeweler: Staghead Designs

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