Giving Back With Your Wedding Registry
Beth Helmstetter, wedding planning extraordinaire and Equally Wed preferred equality-minded wedding vendor, recently launched The Good Beginning, which connects couples getting married with charitable organizations that they can select for their wedding registry. We caught up with the Los Angeles-based full-service wedding planner to learn more about her fantastic new company.
Equally Wed: How did you come up with this idea? What was your inspiration?
Beth Helmstetter: Giving back is part of my personal life and in doing so, I’ve always wanted to find a way to bring awareness to many of the great organizations I’ve worked with both within the industry and in front of my clients. In addition, several of my couples in the past have chosen to request donations to their favorite charities in lieu of gifts but have found the process relatively challenging. Many organizations are small by nature and do not have a system in place to accept small donations while attributing them to a specific group of people making identifying which guests gave a bit of a process. The Good Beginning streamlines this process making it very easy for the couple, their guests and the organizations.
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Are you working with specific charities already?
We have a list of 100 charities we’ve started with but are adding more daily. In addition, we have several contributors including photographers and other industry professionals submitting organizations that they either personally support or have been involved with in some way. Also, anyone visiting the site can add an organization at any time.
What are your criteria for new charities to join?
We welcome all charitable organizations in good standing.
What if a couple has a charity they are interested in that you don’t have?
There is a form on every page of the site that allows couples or any visitors to add a charity.
Should a couple who wants some of the traditional gifts, such as a KitchenAid mixer and super soft sheets, still register at Good Beginnings as well? Why?
I definitely think this is a good option for all couples, even if they do still want traditional wedding gifts. Not only does it start the ritual of giving off with the beginning of their marriage, but it’s the perfect time to draw awareness to organizations that are near and dear to the couple’s heart. In most cases, guests will purchase both the super soft sheets and make a small donation to show their support.
Is this open to all couples, regardless of sexual orientation? Meaning, is your site set up for two brides or two grooms?
This site is set up for all couples interested in starting the ritual of giving in their marriage.
What’s been the reaction to your project so far?
So good. With so many couples entering into their marriage with a full home of items already, this is a much needed avenue for requesting gifts that all of us have come across. And while the wedding industry is so beautiful, it is one of what many would consider frivolous. Because of this, I’ve had so much support from everyone in the industry in getting this project in front of real couples.
What do you hope to achieve with The Good Beginning?
Raising awareness and millions and millions of dollars for the organizations around the world that are changing lives.
Visit thegoodbeginning.com to learn more.
Kirsten Palladino is an award-winning editor and writer, as well as the author of the forthcoming wedding planning book for LGBTQ couples, EQUALLY WED (Seal Press/Hachette Book Group, May 2017). She’s the co-founder and editorial director of equallywed.com, the world’s leading digital LGBTQ wedding magazine. She blogs about trauma recovery at foragedwellness.com. Palladino has been profiled on CNN and in The New York Times. Her work has appeared in Entrepreneur magazine, ARTNews magazine, Art & Antiques magazine, The Knot, Executive Traveler magazine, the Huffington Post, and more. She was recognized as one of Glamour magazine's Hometown Heroes for 2015. Palladino has an open door communications policy on Twitter at @kirstenop and Facebook at fb.com/kirstenpalladino.
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