When Bastian and Marc envisioned their wedding day, they knew exactly what they wanted: something stylish and modern, yet relaxed and warm—a day that reflected their shared love for design, food, and their chosen family. With thoughtful details, a meaningful ceremony, and heart-centered touches, their celebration in Munich was a true reflection of their love story.
A Love That Unfolded Naturally
Although they both attended the University of Passau and even took the same course, Bastian and Marc didn’t meet until years later—thanks to a dating app. “I liked Bastian straight away from his writing,” Marc recalls. After six months of chatting, their first date sealed the deal: it just felt right. Everything unfolded easily and organically from there.
In 2021, Marc proposed during a photoshoot for their Christmas card. “He took out the ring box, and I was so surprised I don’t even remember saying yes!” says Bastian. “But Marc is sure I did,” he adds with a laugh.
After their student days in Passau, they moved to Munich for work and then back to Passau at the beginning of 2023 with their dog Pike.
A Thoughtful, Design-Forward Celebration
Bastian and Marc’s wedding took place in late October, with a ceremony in a stunning old industrial building next to their reception venue, Tonwerk Dorfen. The ceremony space was warm and romantic, filled with candlelight as the sun set. A live acoustic duo performed four songs on guitar, violin, and keyboard, while the grooms exchanged personal vows in front of their loved ones. There were no religious elements, just a heartfelt ring-warming ceremony and touching words from both their mothers.
The design was minimalist and modern with a gentle color palette of greens, nudes, whites, soft pinks, and blacks. Floral arrangements were intentionally simple on the reception tables, with more opulent displays during the ceremony, curated by Die Blumenoase.
Their goal? To keep the day as stylish as it was approachable. “We wanted it to feel relaxed, not stiff or overwhelming,” they shared.
Pride, Subtly Woven In
In keeping with German wedding tradition, Bastian and Marc offered an afternoon “coffee and cake” reception following the ceremony. Guests were treated to a stunning sweet table served from a vintage Ape vehicle, accompanied by hearty finger foods passed as a flying buffet. The pièce de résistance was their wedding cake by Sweet Diva, which had a surprise rainbow pride flag inside—a quiet but powerful nod to their identity and joy.
Rather than traditional guest favors, the couple offered something deeply meaningful: guests received wooden tokens to place into one of three boxes, each representing a charity close to the grooms’ hearts—environmental protection, a dog shelter, and a queer advocacy organization. After the wedding, Bastian and Marc made donations based on the guests’ choices, rounding up the totals themselves. “It felt so right to give back on our big day,” they shared.
Celebration, Connection, and Ice Cream
Dinner at Moglis Tonwerk was a culinary experience, with a focus on quality food and shared connection. Afterward, the grooms surprised guests with a build-your-own ice cream bar, complete with toppings and sprinkles—a playful and sweet ending to the meal.
Their first dance was set to “I’m Yours” by Oleta Adams & José James—an intimate, soulful moment that set the tone for the dance party that followed, spun by Event24Muc.
Throughout the day, one thing stood out above all: the couple’s deep care for everyone around them. Every vendor received a thoughtful bag of sweets, a handwritten card, and a small gift. “They were more than just vendors to us—they became part of our celebration,” the couple shared.
Words of Wisdom from the Grooms
Bastian and Marc have some advice for other LGBTQ+ couples planning their weddings:
“We believe the most important thing is to find vendors you can trust and with whom you feel completely comfortable right from the first conversation. There has to be an instant click. We did some pre-searching on Google and Instagram for planners who explicitly cater to LGBTQ+ couples, which gave us a solid starting point. Follow your heart when choosing the right people and venue. That way, you can truly enjoy the planning process and have fun with it.”
They also encourage vendors to be visible in their support:
“If your website or social media channels show that you’re open to working with LGBTQ+ couples, that’s a huge help in making a choice. It immediately weeds out those who might not want to work with LGBTQ+ couples, saving time and stress on both sides. In general, we always feel comfortable when we’re treated just like any other couple.”
While they experienced moments of uncertainty and the subtle fear of rejection early on, choosing the right planner changed everything. Their planner, Mrs. Right, not only helped them organize the day but also connected them with affirming vendors who felt like chosen family by the end.
A Wedding That Felt Just Right
“When you step away from traditional and classic wedding concepts, you realize a whole new world of possibilities opens up. We were incredibly lucky with our wedding team, who tailored every detail to suit us perfectly. When all the little details come together on the wedding day—like pieces of a puzzle—it’s just an indescribably beautiful feeling.”
Vendors:
Photography: Coco Gonser Photography
Planning: Mrs. Right
Florals: Die Blumenoase
Ceremony Venue: Tonwerk Dorfen
Reception Venue: Moglis Tonwerk
Cake: Sweet Diva
DJ: Event24Muc
Live Music: Music Made With Love
Officiant: Worte mitten ins Herz
Children’s Entertainment: Kids in Munich
Suits: Suit Supply
