Choosing your wedding suit or tuxedo is one of the most important style decisions you’ll make in your wedding planning journey. Not only does your outfit influence how confident you’ll feel, but it also plays a major role in how your photos turn out, how comfortable you are on the dance floor, and how well you fit in with the overall vibe of your wedding. To help navigate this decision, we turned to suiting expert Jason Jackson, president of Generation Tux, for his insights.
According to Jackson, there are a few essential elements to keep in mind when selecting what to wear on your wedding day: formality, location and personal style. “There are a variety of factors to consider, but it really comes down to a few things. First, the formality of your event. Is this black tie or slightly less formal? Second, location. Are you having a wedding in a big, grand location, are you tying the knot on the beach, or is it a small backyard event? Finally, personal style. You should always have some of your personality come out in your suit or tuxedo choice,” said Jackson. He added that the color of your outfit should reflect your wedding theme and personal flair, and even classic tuxedos can be personalized through tie and pocket square choices.
When it comes to deciding between a suit and a tuxedo, the level of formality should be your guide. “Choosing between a suit or a tuxedo really comes down to the formality of the event. If you’re having a formal or black-tie event, you want to wear a tuxedo,” Jackson explained. Within tuxedos, lapel style can elevate your look further. “A notch lapel is the most common and most popular tuxedo jacket. The next level up would be the peak lapel jacket. And lastly, the most formal look is the shawl lapel,” he said, noting that many people favor the shawl lapel for its sleek look and elongating effect. For less formal weddings, suits in classic shades like black, navy, charcoal or gray are great, while brighter colors like blue, tan or green work well for outdoor or summer weddings.
For 2025 wedding trends, Generation Tux’s president noted the strong interest in timeless styles. “The classic black tuxedo has made a big comeback over the last couple of years. We’re still seeing a lot of wedding couples choosing the Black Notch Lapel Tuxedo,” Jackson said. He also highlighted Mystic Blue and Gray Sharkskin as popular year-round picks, and British Tan as a go-to for spring and summer ceremonies.
As for timing for when to order your wedding suit or tuxedo, Jackson recommends planning ahead. “Most people design their look and order their free home try-on about 3 to 4 months out from their wedding date,” he advised. He also recommended not waiting too long in case adjustments are needed, and to allow time for any changes to accessories or coordinating items for the wedding party.
For those looking to personalize their style, Jackson has plenty of suggestions. “If you want to stay traditional but have a little fun with your wedding look, it’s easy to take a classic look and add some extra style,” said Jackson. He suggested pairing your suit with a bold or patterned tie, adding a vibrant pocket square, or playing with vest colors for contrast. Footwear and socks are another area to express personality—colorful socks or your favorite sneakers can make the outfit feel more “you.”
Accessories can make or break a wedding look. Jackson encourages couples to think beyond the basics. Tie bars, cufflinks, lapel pins, suspenders, and unique shoe choices can all be integrated to add personal flair and elegance. “This is a head-to-toe look, and every piece is an opportunity to show some personality,” he said.
Fit is another essential element to consider. A well-fitting suit or tuxedo not only looks great but feels comfortable throughout the day. Jackson emphasized the importance of Generation Tux’s home try-on process. “You want to make sure you’re comfortable enough to move, dance, and celebrate, without constantly adjusting your jacket or pants,” he said.
For LGBTQ+ couples and marriers who are both wearing suits or tuxedos, Jackson encourages finding a balance between cohesion and individuality. “If both people in the wedding couple are wearing suits, that doesn’t mean you have to look exactly the same,” he said. Options include matching suits with different accessories, coordinating vests that complement one another, or going bold with entirely different colored suits but coordinating with matching ties. “The possibilities are endless when you customize the accessories to play off the outfits,” he added.
And for couples seeking gender-expansive or nontraditional options, Jackson stressed the importance of comfort and authenticity. He shared that Generation Tux offers inclusive sizing and a wide range of fits to suit all body types and identities. “Everyone deserves to feel incredible in what they’re wearing. Your outfit should reflect your identity and make you feel powerful and proud,” he said.
Jackson also pointed out that many couples are leaning into sustainability by opting for high-quality rentals or suiting options made from recycled materials. Choosing pieces that can be worn again or mixed into your everyday wardrobe is a smart and stylish choice.
For inspiration, Jackson shared that many of their clients love coordinating their wedding party looks by playing with color palettes and textures. “We see a lot of parties where the groomsmen or attendants wear the same suit, but everyone gets a different colored tie or pocket square to show their individuality while staying cohesive,” he said. You might also consider asking your floral designer to create different but complementing boutonnieres.
Finally, Jackson left couples with one key piece of advice: “Have fun and don’t get overwhelmed. Choose a vendor that has the styles and colors you’re looking for and don’t settle. Design looks that show off your personality and create memories and photos that will last a lifetime. This is your wedding day, so it’s your rules.”
With so many options available and the ability to personalize nearly every detail, your wedding attire can be just as memorable and meaningful as any other part of your special day. Whether you’re going classic or contemporary, wild or refined, Jackson reminds couples that confidence and authenticity are always in style.
CREATIVE PARTNERS
Suits, shoes and accessories: Generation Tux
Floral design: Kiraflora
Photography: Amanda Summerlin
Venue and caterer: The Ramspeck
Models: Preston Woods, Johnathan Marulanda
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