By Jonathan Bender
So you’ve made the commitment plunge you former commitment-phobe, you. Finally tying yourself to your choice of wardrobe (what did you think I was talking about?), a bow tie is something that isn’t easily pulled off by most, as it’s normally associated with discomfort. But it’s not necessarily so stuffy. Plus, you must accessorize to personalize. If you’re a fan of color, make your wedding look pop. Mastering the art of the bow tie isn’t simple, but it’s all with the flick of a finger. Don’t you even dare think about going the clip-on route—I don’t even care if it’s a vintage piece. Clip on equals unacceptable, ya dig? Play with patterns and don’t be afraid to be yourself on your big day: A tie can easily class up even the mosty casual of affairs. Remember: You’re the one in control of captivating your crowd by what you wear.

TOP TIE PICKS
Carrot & Gibbs (black polka dot available at Nordstrom); Carrot & Gibbs (lavender available at Nordstorm); Zara (maroon polka dot available at Zara.com); David Donahue (available at Nordstrom); Billy Reid (houndstooth available at Bloomingdales)
HOW TO TIE A BOW TIE
Need to learn how to tie a bow tie? Here’s a an easy-to-follow instructional video, courtesy of Details Magazine.
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