George Bragg (he/him/his) and Nelson Kiige (he/him/his) married on a sun-drenched afternoon at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy, with every wooden chair on the lawn dressed in white linen and a bright Ugandan-print fan tied to its back. Guests in bold prints and vivid colors filled those chairs while colorful bunting flags hung between the towering cypress and pine trees overhead. The rolling Florentine hills stretched out behind the altar. Not a single flower arrangement in sight, by design.

The love story

“I was living in Kampala, Uganda, when I was invited by a friend to a spin class,” George says. “It was my first one and I wasn’t sure what to expect. I certainly didn’t expect the leader of the class to be the most gorgeous, beautiful man I’d ever laid eyes on. I fumbled my way through the class despite being fit and an avid cyclist.”

The gym visit that followed sealed it. “After the class I went with my friend to thank the instructor. His name was Nelly (Nelson). He said I must come again next week and I fully intended to but I hurt my toe in the gym in the following days and didn’t go to the next class.”

“A few weeks later I was back at the gym doing my own workout when Nelly spotted me on the treadmill and came and joined me by taking up the one beside me,” he says. “We chatted the afternoon away and spent far more time than planned walking on the treadmill. He boldly asked for my phone number afterwards and shortly after I took him on a date. We’ve been together ever since.”

After five years engaged, George and Nelson arrived in Tuscany as a British and Ugandan couple based in Amsterdam, already feeling, as they put it, like they had been married for a long time.

A groom in a gold brocade shirt adjusts his white trousers while checking his reflection in a mirror during pre-ceremony prep.
A groom in a gold floral shirt gets help dressing from an attendant in a getting-ready room at Conti di San Bonifacio, Tuscany.
A groom ties his Converse sneakers while a flower-crowned dog rests nearby during pre-ceremony prep at Conti di San Bonifacio.
Two gold wedding bands โ€” one with a turquoise inlay, one a polished dome โ€” rest on white fabric at Conti di San Bonifacio.
Two grooms walk a confetti-lined aisle outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy, as guests cheer.
Two grooms dance joyfully down the aisle with guests at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.

Ceremony at the wine resort

“The ceremony was outdoors in the late afternoon Tuscan sun,” Nelson says. “The guests’ seats faced the Italian countryside with vineyards and mountains as the backdrop. Each wooden chair was draped in white linen with a bright Ugandan-style fan tied to the back of it. Bright patterned flags hung above amongst the trees highlighting the ceremonial area.”

The structure of the ceremony was entirely their own. “The whole ceremony was designed by us and not particularly traditional,” he says. “The guests were asked to take their seats as the music turned up. First I (George) emerged leading a handful of guests/dancers from the pale bricked estate building into the wide courtyard. We performed in the courtyard and I danced my way down the grass aisle before Nelly did the same, dancing his way to me.”

Once both grooms stood together, two close friends took the floor. “We took a seat and two of our dear friends then spoke about us individually and as a couple, before leading guests through a special interactive moment: describing things we had each done and asking guests to stand if it applied to them. For example: you are a mother of a groom or you have gone to the gym with Nelly or you have had one of George’s special cocktails that he finishes by stirring it with his finger.”

The ring delivery had its own scene-stealer. Maya, George’s dog who originally traveled with him from Uganda, wore a flower headdress to carry the rings down the aisle. During the exchange, she wrapped herself around George and, as he tells it, tried to keep him for herself. The two turquoise-inlaid gold bands were slipped onto their fingers as confetti blasted through the air.

“We each then said our own vows and kissed as confetti was blasted around us,” Nelson says. “Then we grabbed our friends and family by the hands and danced down to the pool for aperitifs.”

Two grooms laugh with guests during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Guests seated on a sunny lawn watch two speakers during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
A groom speaks into a microphone during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Two grooms share their first kiss amid a shower of gold confetti at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms exchange vows outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany as guests look on beneath a sunny sky.
Two grooms stand before seated guests during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.

An evening that kept going

“Dinner and speeches followed before we cut into our huge Tiramisรน wedding cake and popped the champagne,” George says. The tiramisu, made by the chef at Conti di San Bonifacio, was layered and substantial, cut inside the resort’s rustic stone interior as the two grooms stood in contrasting looks.

Then came the reveal. “The DJ who had been enhancing the festivities throughout turned up the music and everyone hit the dance floor, except us…we snuck off to our room,” he says. “Not too much later we emerged dressed in matching sequin outfits, mine gold and Nelly’s blue. Together we strode to the dance floor and performed our own couple’s dance to Beyoncรฉ.”

“This set the dance floor on fire and the party continued all night, with even the kids dancing throughout,” he says. “It was a truly joyous celebration.”

The purple, gold and red uplighting that washed the ancient pine trees, the string lights overhead and the DJ, Robin van Putten, who had been reading the crowd all day, kept the lawn alive well into the night. At one point both grooms dropped to the dance floor for push-ups in their sequined ensembles as the crowd formed a circle around them.

Outdoor wedding ceremony setup with wooden chairs and colorful decorations at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Outdoor ceremony setup at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany with wooden chairs, colorful bunting, and guests mingling.
A groom in cream trousers and a floral shirt stands at the altar during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio, Tuscany.
Gold rings with turquoise detail rest on white linen beneath a framed bamboo botanical print at Conti di San Bonifacio, Tuscany.
A groom in white leans toward an officiant holding a mic as another marrier carries a small olive tree at Conti di San Bonifacio, Tuscany.
Smiling wedding guests seated outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, watching the ceremony unfold.

Ugandan touches in Tuscany

“We brought in Ugandan touches with the fans, flags and Nelly wore traditional Ugandan patterns in his clothes on the day,” George says.

Nelson’s ceremony look centered on those patterns: a bold black-and-white geometric print suit paired with Converse high-tops, a choice that moved between cultural reference and relaxed confidence. George wore a shimmering gold brocade short-sleeve shirt with crisp white trousers for the ceremony, then the gold sequin romper for the reception. Together they arrived at their couple’s dance in coordinating sequined looks, gold and cobalt blue, that read as both a fashion statement and a shared performance.

The invitation for guests to wear bright colors or whatever they felt comfortable in was taken seriously. The crowd arrived in yellow gowns, leopard print, floral suits, linen and bold African-inspired fabrics, their African-print hand fans in hand throughout the afternoon. Colorful triangle bunting in Ugandan-inspired prints ran across every outdoor space, tying the Florentine hillside to Kampala in a way that was specific and felt.

Flowers were never part of the plan. The fans and flags did the work that arrangements might otherwise do, giving the ceremony space color, movement and cultural meaning without a single bouquet.

Two grooms share an emotional moment during their outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
A groom in white laughs with the officiant during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms stand with their officiant during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
A groom places a ring on his partner's finger during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms share their first kiss during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany as guests cheer.
Two grooms share a joyful embrace at an outdoor wedding ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.

Advice for engaged LGBTQ+ couples or marriers

“Having a base of friendship is just as important as love and romance for a relationship,” Nelson says.

Their own story bears that out. A spin class introduction, an afternoon on side-by-side treadmills, more than five years engaged and three years of active planning: the wedding at Conti di San Bonifacio was not a spontaneous declaration but the result of two people who had built something durable together before they ever booked a venue.

Two grooms exchange vows outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, one in white and gold, one in black.
Smiling wedding guests seated outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany cheer during a same-sex wedding ceremony.
Two grooms share their first kiss at an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Wedding guests applaud and celebrate as a groom walks the aisle at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
A groom reads vows aloud at an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Two grooms walk back down the aisle with guests cheering at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.

Challenges faced

“There weren’t unusual challenges for us in particular,” George says. “We just made sure to choose the right people and professionals to surround ourselves with for the occasion.”

That intentionality carried through every vendor decision. Planning a destination wedding across three countries, Uganda in the couple’s history, the Netherlands as their home and Italy as the setting, required a team that understood who they were without needing it explained. Photographer Tiffany Brophy was among those professionals, documenting the day from pre-ceremony prep through the late-night dance floor without missing a beat.

Two grooms exchange rings during an outdoor ceremony at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy, with rolling hills behind them.
Two grooms share a kiss while holding champagne flutes beneath a stone archway at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms embrace on a terrace overlooking the cypress-lined vineyards and rolling hills of Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Low-angle view of two grooms holding hands beneath a blue sky at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms hold hands and walk through golden sunset at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Two grooms sit together on a grassy hillside at golden hour beside a winding road at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.

Pleasant surprises

“We loved that when the photographer was done for the night, she put away her camera and came and danced with us!” Nelson says.

Two grooms walk hand in hand along a sunlit road overlooking vineyards at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms share a kiss outside an arched brick doorway at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
A groom in a gold sequin outfit dances joyfully with guests at an outdoor evening reception at Conti di San Bonifacio, Tuscany.
A performer in a sequined blue jumpsuit dances at an outdoor reception at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany as guests cheer.
Guests mingle under colorful illuminated pine trees at an outdoor evening reception at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
Guests and a groom share candlelit dinner at an outdoor round table at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Wedding guests dine outdoors at dusk at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany under string lights and colorful bunting.
Guests laugh and celebrate at an outdoor reception dinner at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Two grooms smile as a woman with a microphone addresses them outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Wedding guests dine at white-clothed tables on the lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany at golden hour.
Wedding guests relax on benches outside a stone villa while two children play with bubble guns on the lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio.
Two grooms walk arm-in-arm with guests on the lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio wine resort in Tuscany, laughing joyfully.
Guests dine al fresco at golden hour at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, with potted cypress trees and red bunting.
Wedding guests in colorful summer attire walk through the sun-drenched courtyard at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Guests mingle in the sunny gravel courtyard outside Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
A joyful group dances through an arched stone gateway at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
A joyful group of wedding guests and grooms pose together in a rustic stone archway doorway at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
Elegant outdoor reception tablescape at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany at golden hour, set with white linens and candles.
Aerial drone view of Conti di San Bonifacio wine resort in Tuscany, Italy, with olive groves, vineyards, and a pool.
Wedding guests dance and celebrate outdoors on the lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany under colorful bunting.
Guests dance and dip on the lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy, during a vibrant outdoor wedding reception.
A groom and wedding guests pose exuberantly in an arched stone doorway at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Guests dance and celebrate outdoors on the lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany during a wedding reception.
Guests and a groom in a blue sequined jacket dance and celebrate at an outdoor evening reception at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
Guests raise wine glasses in a candlelit outdoor toast at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Two grooms share a joyful dance outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany as smiling guests cheer around them.
Guests and grooms dance under colorful bunting at an outdoor evening reception at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Wedding guests and grooms dance joyfully outside a stone archway at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Two grooms cut a large tiramisu wedding cake at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, smiling together.
Two grooms in gold and navy sequin outfits dance outdoors at night at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.
Wedding guests laugh and dance together on a sunlit lawn at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy.
Two grooms in sequined outfits do push-ups on the dance floor as wedding guests cheer at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
Guests dance and celebrate outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany during a joyful wedding reception.
A performer in a blue sequined jumpsuit dances at an outdoor evening reception at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
Two grooms in sequined disco-style jumpsuits dance joyfully at an outdoor reception at Conti di San Bonifacio in Tuscany.
A group dances joyfully at a Tuscan reception at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort, with one groom center stage in bold patterned attire.
Wedding guests and grooms dance outdoors at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany, Italy, on a sun-drenched gravel courtyard.
Two grooms in sequined jumpsuits dance together on an outdoor dance floor at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort in Tuscany.

That moment, a vendor stepping out of a professional role and into the celebration itself, landed as a reflection of the day’s overall spirit. George and Nelson had built a wedding that asked people to show up fully, in bright colors, dancing, present. Their photographer did exactly that. โค๏ธ

Featured LGBTQ+ Inclusive and Queer Affirming Wedding Vendors

Photographer: Tiffany Brophy Photography
Ceremony Venue: Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort
Reception Venue: Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort
DJ: Robin van Putten
Cake Designer: Chef at Conti di San Bonifacio Wine Resort

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