When it comes to engagements, the tricky deciding factor is always the hunt for the perfect ring. Harry Winston, Tiffanyโ€™s and David Yurman become your safari grounds. Think: eye on the prize, right? Well, what IF your fiancรฉ-to-be isnโ€™t a ring guy or gal? A recently engaged friend of mine suggested wrist bling instead of ring bling. Not a ring guy, his reasoning was, โ€œIt doesnโ€™t make sense for me to get a ring Iโ€™ll wear for less than a year.โ€ Why I dig the idea? Symbolism. Marriage takes time, effort, balance and management, like any other relationship. A watch can last you forever and still have the same importance as a ring. Grooms- and brooms-to-be, this may be the right way to go. Iโ€™m a firm believer that if youโ€™re going to take your search down this route, every cent youโ€™d put into the ring should go toward the timepiece. Love canโ€™t be bought but time sure can.

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Movado Serio: Link your marriage together with a simple stainless steel piece that doesnโ€™t over shine your man to be. Available at Movado.com for $1,495.

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Tiffany & Co. Atlas Dome Watch: 18k gold and silver dial in stainless steel. An elegant choice. Available at Tiffany.com for $6,200.

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Rolex Oyster (circa 1985): The most iconic of Rolexโ€™s models, this vibrant 14-carat piece is both wrist and eye candy. A little personality never hurt an engagement. Available at Park & Bond for $7,900.

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Omega Constellation (circa 1960): Everybody checks their horoscope compatibility, even you. Make the romance last with a watch that ties the two of you to the stars. A vintage piece that locks your love together. Available at Park & Bond for $3,900.

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Nixon ‘The Ceramic 51-30’ Watch: A bold statement in glossy white ceramic, this Nixon newcomer keeps the tradition of wearing white to your wedding alive. Available at Nordstrom for $2,600.

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Philip Stein Dual Time Zone Bracelet Watch: Marrying a jetsetter? Now you both will be able to arrange your schedules accordingly. Love knows no bounds, even with distance. Available at Nordstrom for $880.

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Rolex Stainless-Steel Chronograph (circa 1965): A vinatage timepiece from Park & Bond that is sure to put them over the edge if they knows the pricetag ($32k!). A sure-fire conversation piece that has Page Six written all over it. Available at Park & Bond for $32,000.