We’re bursting with sparkly, useful and entertaining gifts for you, your spouse (or spouse-to-be), parents, attendants and even your favorite wedding vendors. Follow along with us as we take you through some of our exciting discoveries and favorite standbys. Happy shopping and happy holidays from the editors of Equally Wed! xo

Dish, please

Have a cook in your life? This Swiss Diamond Cast Iron 2.65 Qt. Round Casserole is for them. Great for folks who love to entertain, this elegant casserole can easily transition from stovetop, to oven, to tabletop. Plus, it’s so easy to clean!
Price: $140.40

Swiss Diamond Cast Iron 2.65 Qt. Round Casserole

These make us snow happy

Want your attendants to have something lovely to wear on your big day? Now’s a perfect time to gift them what you’d like for them to wear, like these gorgeous glacial earrings from BHLDN.
Price: $150

Our cups runneth over

Tiffany & Co. has moved beyond the jewelry with its new Everyday Object line! Hate doing the dishes and love the look of paper cups? Want to give your partner the gift of easy clean-up while making their Tiffany blue dreams come true? These Tiffany & Co. paper cups give the look of disposable, but are actually bone china, meaning you can use them over and over again. They might set you back a pretty penny, but at least you can say you own something from Tiffany’s now!
Price: $95 for two

Tiffany & Co. paper cup
Blanc de Bleu

Holiday blues

Something blue for the holidays? Indeed! Blanc de Bleu makes for a perfect host gift when you’re hitting the holiday party circuit. If you haven’t tried it, you need to! This premium California sparkling wine has an added hint of blueberries. Blanc de Bleu is one of Equally Wed’s platinum partners. Thanks for supporting equality-minded brands that make Equally Wed possible.
Price: $16 per bottle when you buy a case

Insta famous

The Instant Pot is seven gifts in one. It’s like giving a pressure cooker, slow cooker, rice cooker, steamer, sauté, yogurt maker and warmer all in one. This is perfect for anyone who’s busy, likes to cook or is preparing food for several people. Available in 3, 6 and 8 quarts to meet your needs.
Price: $69.99-$129.99

Instant Pot
Oculus Rift

Seeing is believing

Give the ultimate gift to your gamer this holiday. Transport them to an alternate universe inside a PC computer game with Virtual Reality from Oculus.
Price: $399

You say, “Echo.” We say the same.

At EW HQ, we listen to our Echo all day every day. We listen to our local NPR affiliate, check in on the weather, ask random questions (Alexa knows a lot and she tells jokes!), and most of all, we play music. Practice your first dance to all kinds of songs with the Echo, pretend you’re the lead singer in a heavy metal band, or do a test run of walking down the aisle to a variety of tunes—all courtesy of your Echo. We love this oak finish but there are tons of pretty looks to choose from. This is one perfect gift to give yourself or to your partner, which is basically like giving it to yourself. (Been there, done that—is that still cool to say? No? OK.)
Price: $119.99


You need this in your life, and so does your bestie, your mama and your wedding planner. Herbivore Botanicals coco rose coconut oil body polish at Anthropologie is made from raw ingredients such as French pink clay, Brazilian gemstones and Moroccan rose. This gentle exfoliant made by a Seattle couple will leave skin soft to the touch and helps slough off the winter blues.
Price: $48

Gender-neutral underwear

Quite a concept, right? Queer-owned company TomboyX makes some mighty comfortable briefs and trunks for all bodies. This year, the tartan print from the holiday collection has caught our eye.
Price: $27

Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding by Kirsten Palladino -- wedding books for gay weddings, lesbian weddings, trans weddings, queer weddings

The ultimate wedding planning book

Seriously, we’ve read a lot of wedding books, and none compare to this gender-neutral LGBTQ-focused wedding planning guide by our cofounder and editorial director Kirsten Palladino. Recommended by The Knot cofounder Carley Roney, Style Me Pretty founder Abby Larson, Lance Bass and Colin Cowie, Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding takes you from “I will” to “I do” with a thorough and modern take on planning a wedding—all through the LGBTQ lens.
Price: $17.99 or less

Do it for the kids

Got a child in your life? They need these wooden magnetic tiles in their life. Designed in Atlanta by a really cool equality-minded couple, Earthtiles, which are made from sustainable, durable and non-toxic baltic birch wood, promote STEM skills, spatial awareness and fine motor skills as they play. Each set includes squares, equilateral triangles and isosceles triangles.
Price: $59 (sale price)

Earthtiles magnetic wooden tiles
Love is Love mug

Love is love is love is love is love is love

The perfect gift for anyone who loves love (or maybe the family member who needs a gentle reminder that love is love). This versatile mug is covered in a simplistic heart pattern and is designed by Williams-Sonoma, Pottery Barn, and West Elm exclusively for HRC. Love the pattern? It’s also available in candle form!
Price: $12.95 (for one)

Share your pronouns!

One of our favorite lesbian and queer websites, Autostraddle, made these kick-ass pronoun pins, and we’re utterly delighted because telling people your pronouns can be intimidating.
Price: $10

Milk and Sass travel hairbrush great for bridesmaids, brides, grooms and wedding attendants

Stocking stuffer alert

Part high-end hair detangler, part compact mirror and completely calorie-free, this frizz-fighting, shine-inducing travel hairbrush by Milk + Sass is the wedding day essential every married and attendant ought to have stowed safely in their bag. It works like a dream on every hair type and texture.
Price: $12.99