Retro-themed weddings can be a blast not only to attend, but to plan as well. It’s so easy to get caught up in the details—fun flapper headbands for your bridesmaids for a Roaring ‘20s wedding; skinny neon ties for an ‘80s celebration, a disco band for a ‘70s soiree—but how do you prevent it from becoming a total theme night? Remember, the wedding isn’t so much about the theme as it is about you and your new spouse. Here’s a guide for those who want to tip their hat to a specific decade, rather than completely dive into it.
THINK INSPIRED, NOT INDULGED
One way to avoid a total theme night is to be inspired rather than completely indulge. Think of using a color palette from your desired era, a dress style for you and your attendants, fun favors (like mixed tapes for an ‘80s wedding). This way, you’re still acknowledging the theme without feeling like you’re participating in a school spirit week day.
FOCUS ON ONE PART OF THE DECADE
A decade is 10 years—that’s a lot to cover! Many couples get lost in trying to encompass the whole era in one day, which can be overwhelming. Try picking one aspect of the decade, like early ‘60s sophistication or the hippie aesthetic of the late ‘60s.
DON’T WORRY ABOUT ANACHORNISMS
It’s darn near impossible to get every detail exactly right. You have enough to worry about on your big day, don’t stress because you have something from 1965 in decor that’s drawing inspiration from 1963. Remember, this is your wedding, not a vintage trade show. The important thing is for you and your guests to have fun!
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