Sometimes we can get intimidated from buying real bow ties for our weddings because we donโ€™t know how to tie them. Fear no more! We bring you some instructions that will make the whole process seem so fun youโ€™ll want to get married twice.

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circle_1 Lift up the collar of your shirt and place the bow tie around your neck, with one end hanging about an inch and a half below the other.
circle_2 Cross the long end over the short end.
circle_3 Bring the long end behind the short end, and up through the loop so that it hangs down.
circle_4 Adjust the tightness of the tie because you will not be able to adjust it later.
circle_5 Double the short end on itself, creating a horizontal loop.
circle_6 Drop the remaining end over the center of the loop you just formed, creating what will become the center knot.
circle_7 Holding everything in place, put the wide center of the end through the knot and behind the other loop to create a new bow facing the opposite direction.
circle_8 Adjust the bow tie by tugging at the ends of it and straightening the center knot.

Watch a video on how to tie a bow tie here:

Photo: J. Press; Video: YouTube, Howcast

Sonia Oram is the writer of Qwear, a fashion blog with a focus on styles for lesbians, queer women, and transmasculine people.