Sometimes we can get intimidated from buying real bow ties for our weddings because we don’t know how to tie them. Fear no more! We bring you some instructions that will make the whole process seem so fun you’ll want to get married twice.

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circle_1 Lift up the collar of your shirt and place the bow tie around your neck, with one end hanging about an inch and a half below the other.
circle_2 Cross the long end over the short end.
circle_3 Bring the long end behind the short end, and up through the loop so that it hangs down.
circle_4 Adjust the tightness of the tie because you will not be able to adjust it later.
circle_5 Double the short end on itself, creating a horizontal loop.
circle_6 Drop the remaining end over the center of the loop you just formed, creating what will become the center knot.
circle_7 Holding everything in place, put the wide center of the end through the knot and behind the other loop to create a new bow facing the opposite direction.
circle_8 Adjust the bow tie by tugging at the ends of it and straightening the center knot.

Watch a video on how to tie a bow tie here:

Photo: J. Press; Video: YouTube, Howcast

Sonia Oram is the writer of Qwear, a fashion blog with a focus on styles for lesbians, queer women, and transmasculine people.