What’s Your Wedding Hairstyle? We Like These Looks for Our Trans, Androgynous, Queer and Butch Loves
With the majority of wedding magazines focused on femme women, we want to make sure to take the time to talk to our masculine readers, be they cisgender, transgender or somewhere in between on the gender continuum. Today’s topic: hair.
Whether you’re going for the slicked-back sleek look of the 1920s (think Leonardo DiCaprio in The Great Gatsby), a do-wop from the middle of last century (Elvis really did have good hair), something short and cropped or a fade, we’ve rounded up some photos to inspire your wedding hairdo.

John Legend rocks a sexy head full of cropped black curls.

Beck, a trans man, gets a final spritz before his wedding. Photo: Our Labor of Love

Leonardo DiCaprio embodies Jay Gatsby in The Great Gatsby. Photo: Warner Bros.

Jenny Shimizu, a model and actress (and confirmed past lover of Angelina Jolie’s and rumored lover of Madonna’s) kills with this short, slightly shaggy haircut.

Styled, deeply side-parted waves keep this model’s hair looking farm-fresh.
See more short hair styles for butch lesbians
Equally Wed
MOST VIEWED STORIES
- A Nonbinary Wedding Photographer’s Take on New York Bridal Fashion Week — Wedding Attire Trends for 2027
- Toronto’s Big Queer Wedding Show Aims to Connect Queer Couples With Queer Vendors
- A Love Story for the Ages: Bridgerton’s First Queer Romance Takes Center Stage
- Two Proposals, Two Continents: This Gay NYC Couple Got Engaged Twice
- 10 Wedding Rings & Bands We Love from LGBTQ+ Inclusive Emily Chelsea Jewelry









