All the tables were named after different cities and countries they have visited through the years. They walked down the aisle separately—Peter with his sister and godmother, and Roland with his parents. Their ceremony was performed by an Anglican minister and a rabbi. The travel aficionados called their wedding attendants “the wedding crew” (fun!!). For more gender-neutral wedding terms, check out my new book Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding.
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Kirsten Palladino
Kirsten Ott Palladino (she/her) is an award-winning editor, writer, speaker and educator, as well as the author of the first gender-neutral wedding planning book for LGBTQ+ couples, EQUALLY WED: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO PLANNING YOUR LGBTQ+ WEDDING (Seal Press). She’s the co-founder and editorial director of Equally Wed, the world’s leading digital LGBTQ+ wedding magazine, as well as Equally Wed Pro, the LGBTQ+ inclusive certification course and educational platform. Palladino has been profiled on CNN, NPR and Forbes and in The New York Times. Her work has appeared in Washington Post, Entrepreneur magazine, ARTNews magazine, Art & Antiques magazine, The Knot, Executive Traveler magazine, the Huffington Post, and more. She was recognized as one of Glamour magazine's Hometown Heroes for 2015.
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