The very first wedding I attended as a child was of two women. I liked their flowing dresses. It wasn’t legal but it was beautiful and sincere and carried all of the weight the couple needed.
My own gay wedding was also before legalization and required multiple trips to Canada and a FedEx account.
Since then I’ve had the honor of officiating many queer weddings, both religious and secular. There is something so precious about celebrating LGBTQIA+ love publicly and with witnesses – and to be able to sign my gay name to official licenses as an ordained pastor!
I would be delighted to work with you as a couple (or thrupple, or…) to create a meaningful ritual celebrating your love. Premarital counseling (covering the marital hot topics of family of origin, sex, children, religion, and money) also available.