Asking someone to be in your wedding party is one of the exciting tasks on a wedding planning to-do list. It’s a special way to remind your friends and family that they are important in your life and that you want them to stand by your side on such a big day in your life. Proposing such a meaningful role to them is not something that should be done over text message or in an impersonal way. Instead, celebrate with a sentimental card to give as a keepsake. Add a meaningful note and you are all set with the perfect proposal that can be given to your attendant in person or sent through the mail if an in-person ask isn’t possible.









Featured card from Knotty Cards on Etsy, $4.50
Emily Rochotte
Emily Rochotte is a professional freelancer as well as a former assistant editor of equallywed.com, the world’s leading digital LGBTQ+ wedding magazine. Her work has been featured on HowHeAsked, Bermuda Wedding & Honeymoon, and more. Don't hesitate to say "hello!" to Emily over on Twitter at @emilybeingemily
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