Ritchie and Will’s Tulum, Mexico wedding was a glorious rustic surf-side affair. Their photographer, Jacquie Lew of Photo Philosophies, introducedย the idea of a “trash the suit” photo shoot to theย two grooms. We love it because it’s a new tradition for gay couples that’s pioneering unchartered territory. “I felt likeย theย traditional ‘trashย theย dress’ [photo shoot] is geared only toward females and focused onย theย brides,” Lew tells Equally Wed.ย “Iย thought, ‘Well, why doย theย girls get to have allย theย fun?’ and so Iย proposedย theย idea to Ritchie and Will, who thought it was an awesome idea. Knowing we would do some exploring afterย theย wedding togetherโRitchie and Will became such good friends to meโwe thoughtย theย perfect place to doย theย ‘trashย theย suit’ย was Xel Ha, which technically is a waterpark but more like acres of forest and and lakes,rivers and waterfalls. I wanted them to have a totally tropical feel. We got lucky that day in a way because it pouredย on us, but we also got sunshine too.”ย
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See Will and Ritchie’s gorgeous Real Wedding feature here.
Photos:ย Jacquie Lew |ย Photo Philosophies
Kirsten Palladino
Kirsten Ott Palladino (she/her) is an award-winning editor, writer, speaker and educator, as well as the author of the first gender-neutral wedding planning book for LGBTQ+ couples, EQUALLY WEDโ: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO PLANNING YOUR LGBTQ+ WEDDING โ(Seal Press). Sheโs the co-founder and editorial director of Equally Wed, the worldโs leading digital LGBTQ+ wedding magazine, as well as Equally Wed Pro, the LGBTQ+ inclusive certification course and educational platform. Palladino has been profiled on CNN, NPR and Forbes and in The New York Times. Her work has appeared in Washington Post, Entrepreneur magazine, ARTNews magazine, Art & Antiques magazine, The Knot, Executive Traveler magazine, the Huffington Post, and more. She was recognized as one of Glamour magazine's Hometown Heroes for 2015.
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These are great photos and we love the idea of trashing the suit!