If you’re planning the wedding of your dreams, you may have no idea where to start. Maybe all the inspiration you’ve seen on the covers of magazines has only featured straight couples, and you’re left wondering: How can I do something like that?
We’re here to help. We’ve got wedding inspiration (and we said “lesbian wedding” in the title, but these ideas apply even if you aren’t a lesbian) that will help you get well on your way to planning the best wedding ever.
Attire
![Vibrant, colorful blue and fuchsia wedding two brides purple pink blue wedding dress blue tux pink flowers](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Vibrant-colorful-blue-and-fuchsia-wedding-gaelle-le-berre-equally-wed-8.jpg)
![Southern traditional chapel wedding two brides purple tuxedo long white dress church God religious cultural traditions laying down grass](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Southern-traditional-chapel-wedding-jaxon-photo-group-equally-wed-9.jpg)
![We spoke to the couple behind that epic Brooklyn Bridge basketball photo](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Alea-Lovely-326.jpg)
![Modern rooftop wedding in Kansas City, Kansas Asian-American lesbian wedding long white dresses](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Modern-rooftop-wedding-in-kansas-city-kansas-sara-clance-photography-equally-wed-7.jpg)
![Earthy winter wedding inspiration two brides long blonde hair black wedding dress autumn bouquet](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Earthy-winter-wedding-inspiration-rad-red-creative-equally-wed-8.jpg)
![](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/elegant-red-and-gold-atlanta-outdoor-wedding-andre-brown-photography-equally-wed-54.jpg)
Hair & Makeup
![Texas couple elopes to LGBTQ+ friendly New Zealand and their warm, moody beach wedding photos are to die for two brides white lace dress red hair black suit bow tie](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Texas-couple-elopes-to-lgbtq-friendly-new-zealand-equally-wed-1.jpg)
![Bright bohemian wedding inspiration two brides burgundy red tux white dress colorful flowers long veil](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Bright-bohemian-wedding-inspiration-arika-jordan-equally-wed-1.jpg)
![Red and purple African diaspora wedding](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Red-and-purple-african-diaspora-wedding-equally-wed-8.jpg)
![Historic mansion winter wedding inspiration two brides long white dresses up do](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Historic-mansion-winter-wedding-inspiration-maura-pierce-equally-wed-5.jpg)
![Elegant black tie wedding in Oxon Hill, Maryland two brides long white Calla Blanche dress white tuxedo tux veil](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Elegant-black-tie-wedding-in-oxon-hill-maryland-emin-photography-equally-wed-2.jpg)
![Earthy winter wedding inspiration two brides long blonde hair black wedding dress autumn bouquet white tuxedo cape](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Earthy-winter-wedding-inspiration-rad-red-creative-equally-wed-9.jpg)
Cakes
![Southwestern garden wedding inspiration macrame dramatic garden of Eve creative lesbian same-sex wedding geometric teal black gold wedding cake](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/southwestern-garden-wedding-inspiration-erika-follansebee-equally-wed-5.jpg)
![Bright bohemian wedding inspiration two brides burgundy red tux white dress colorful flowers long veil cake](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Bright-bohemian-wedding-inspiration-arika-jordan-equally-wed-5.jpg)
![You'll want to a be a guest at this couple's Beauty and the Beast inspired wedding pink and gold leaf cake](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Beauty-and-the-beast-wedding-artistique-imagery-equally-wed-7.jpg)
![Historic mill wedding in Clifton, Texas gold marbled burgundy cake](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Historic-mill-wedding-in-clifton-texas-shelly-taylor-equally-wed-12.jpg)
![Modern rooftop wedding in Kansas City, Kansas striped blue floral cake super heroes superwoman](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Modern-rooftop-wedding-in-kansas-city-kansas-sara-clance-photography-equally-wed-11.jpg)
![Tropical boho wedding photo shoot cake](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/Tropical-boho-wedding-photo-shoot-taken-by-sarah-equally-wed-4.jpg)
Cake toppers
![Simple, classy Georgia wedding with amethyst and aquamarine colors Mr. and Mr. cake topper](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/Simple-classy-Georgia-wedding-with-amethyst-and-aquamarine-colors-hlee-moua-artistry-equally-wed-10.jpg)
![white wedding cake with red and pink flowers and a laser cut wedding cake topper with the word finally -- for an atlanta lesbian wedding](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/coral-and-turquoise-atlanta-lesbian-wedding-141.jpg)
![Modern rooftop wedding in Kansas City, Kansas striped blue floral cake super heroes superwoman](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Modern-rooftop-wedding-in-kansas-city-kansas-sara-clance-photography-equally-wed-10.jpg)
![Bright fall sunflower wedding Mrs. and Mrs. wedding cake](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Bright-fall-sunflower-wedding-hayden-esau-photography-equally-wed-14.jpg)
Invitations
![Blue and gold New Year's Eve elopement inspiration luxurious opulent all black party navy invitations wedding rings bow ties stationery rustic southern](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Blue-and-gold-new-years-eve-elopement-inspiration-jessica-hunt-equally-wed-1.jpg)
![Tropical boho wedding photo shoot invitations](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/Tropical-boho-wedding-photo-shoot-taken-by-sarah-equally-wed-1.jpg)
![Wedding invitation and response card for two brides at rustic Mexican lesbian wedding](https://equallywed.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/mexico-rustic-lesbian-wedding-styled-shoot-mexico-15.jpg)
SEARCH FOR LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY WEDDING VENDORS
For even more wedding inspiration, tips and ideas, follow us on Instagram and Pinterest. Our boards LGBTQ+ Wedding Ideas and Decor are particularly useful for getting inspiration.
Fin Leary Lavoie
Fin Leary Lavoie is an award-winning editor and journalist. He is currently the Communications Manager of the nonprofit We Need Diverse Books and on the faculty of Emerson College. Leary Lavoie was the senior editor for Equally Wed Magazine from August 2018 to March 2020. His work has been published in New York Times, Washington Post, Refinery29, Healthline, Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Boston Globe Magazine, and more. In 2017, he was awarded a Bookbuilders of Boston scholarship for his dedication to amplifying marginalized voices and advocating for an equitable publishing and media industry. Fin lives in Boston with his wife and their two cats. You can find Fin on Instagram @finleary.